Lost of interest

Hi. I don’t know what I should do… My husband and I rarely have sex, and when we do, it isn’t good for me and it lasts maybe two minutes. I’ve honestly lost interest in sex. Some days, even giving him a kiss feels really difficult for me. I’m starting to feel really scared about it… Has anyone been in the same situation? Any advice?

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I don’t have advice but I feel the exact same. Im so touched out and overstimulated that even kissing feels painful. I don’t mind cuddling at night when the baby’s asleep but sex feels like such a chore it honestly sounds miserable to me.

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