Sexless marriage

So in therapy we talk a lot about the fact we don’t have intercourse and his excuse is that he doesn’t have the drive that I do and it takes him a long time to finish. We literally had therapy today and then I catch him tonight sorting himself out while watching porn!!! I’m so fucking mad. What do I do?

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Who’s wrong?

My husband and I go out with another couple. They start venting all their issues. My husband pulls the woman aside because he says my input is escalating the convo. (We had all been drinking).
So he ends up talking to her and I to the guy separately for like 3 hours both sides just airing all their grievances. We all reconvene and discuss some of the things said- maybe 30 mins?
In the car I ask husband “so what dis she say” He goes “who”. I’m now annoyed because who else???? So after I respond clearly irritated he then asks “when?” Clearly when you guys were away from the group! He’s mad at my responses and that I got annoyed. I’m mad he’s asking obvious questions and we fight. He ends up never answering. Next day we’re not talking. Who’s wrong.

Sex in a long term relationship

Is it normal for your partner to barley want to have sex with you, he’s 37 and I’m 27, I’ll admit I don’t make the first move purely because I did it once and he turned me down and it knocked my confidence a lot, we have it maybe once every month or even longer, I do sometimes get in my own head and think he’s watching po*n when I’m sleeping, He’s constantly on his phone till early hours in the morning, He does suffer with MH issues and his body confidence due to putting on abit of weight, it just makes me feel like I’m not his type and I catch him looking at other women when we’re out even doing shopping, it’s always blonde type women too as he has a things for blondes apparently.

Anyone find it easier staying home with a toddler?

My 21 month really is such a good boy, I am so lucky. He has been good with everything since having him. I can’t complain.. BUT he’s at the age where he just wants to run off, touch and play with EVERYTHING. We go to families houses and it just feels pointless because I’m constantly telling him not to touch things and I can’t have a conversation with who i’m seeing.
I bring toys, snacks etc but obviously everything else is more exciting. I then come away from their house feeling deflated and like i should have just stayed in.
At home he can just play with everything and the house is baby/toddler proof.
Any advice welcome too

I think my partner is taking coke again

So I went through an old jacket of his and found loads of empty bags in it. (I cleaned this coat only a few months ago)
I confronted him and he got very angry and shouted and said he hadn't touched any drugs for a very long time and how upset he was because hes trying so hard and ive thrown it all back in his face (he is currently having counseling for addiction)
What do i do?

Almond mom

If you grew up with either an almond mom or an “ingredients house,” how would you describe your eating habits today?

Am I forcing?

I’m a sahm mom I do everything around the house when partner is working. Today I made him take our 4y boy to the park since the sun came out, because it has been raining for the past 3 days so we didn’t go out at all. He worked from 9-1:30pm today since is a holiday. He’s tired because he went to bed late because he was playing call of duty even though he knows he’s not good at staying up late, I could tell he got mad but I didn’t care.
We have 3 parks around our house they’re like 2mins in car, maybe 10mins walking but he decided to take him to the one that’s like 10min in car idk why lol.

So right now I’m gonna get ready and head to target and Marshall’s to grab what I need.