So my almost 3 year old, has been taken care almost the whole time by me, dad comes.from work, have to argue almost everytime to get him.do most basic tjings like brush teetj, read a book, he always says is so tired from work, but if anyone calls, he gladly answer and talk for 1, 2or more hours sometimes lying down sofa or goimg out walking outside no matter how cold or hot is! We kind of just roommates, we dont have any relationship beyond being parents of our child. Sleep different rooms, he doesn't seem to care, he provides for all nasic needs, but that's it, is incapqble of playing with his daughter, r3ad properly a book, he will rather build u a new closet i stead of having to deal with our toddler...the few times did a little is beacuse i yell and argue a lot. Anyone going through same?
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Yes my son dad is lazy with my son. We "co parent" I use that loosely. He doesnt go to conferences or school meetings. He only met his kindergarten teacher and he just finished the 4th grade. He doesnt do homework with him or help him study. He only cares about work and blames that for everything. He doesnt know how to balance or be an active parent. It got to the point where I dont ask him for anything nor do I give up information about anything going on unless he asks which is rarely.

Do you have any family you could live with instead? It sounds like he's not much help and is just making you feel crazy frustrated. He can do the little parenting he does do from afar.
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