I just don’t know any more

My husband is very big into what’s going on in this world and how it’s going downhill and he keeps saying that we just need to be divorced that way if anything comes to it with him that nothing will be attached to me or our son, but sometimes it feels like it’ll just make it easier for him to be able to walk away and I just don’t know what to do anymore. He says we would still be together, but I feel like if something were to happen it would just make it easier for him to walk away because we wouldn’t be I guess bound together.

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Am I being sensitive?

My partner and I have been trying for 2 1/2 years to conceive our third. For over a year, my partner has been taking hCG shots because he was on TRT. At the start of this year, we got an analysis and turns out everything looked good on his end. Never thought it would be a me issue, but I started to work with a fertility specialist and everything checked out until our HSN they found polyps and I need surgery. It’s going to cost $1700 which he will pay. However, the surgery is an hour away and although he works from home, he says he has to work and said I should Uber or have a family member take me. All my support lives an hour in the opposite direction. So it would be an hour to me, hour to the surgery and then back to me and back home. Would you be upset? I just wanna know if I’m too sensitive. He is paying the surgery should last no longer than 45 minutes, but I am being put out and nervous. Just looking for feedback.

Husband saw my vibrator

I messed up and am so embarrassed!!

I know most of you won’t relate to this, but my husband and I have been on an extended dry spell which I won’t go into but basically it’s on me. But I still masturbate occasionally because a mom’s gotta let out stress somehow.

Well I’ve been very good throughout this whole time of not letting it be known that I still masturbate, because my excuse for not having sex has always been that I’m just not in the mood and don’t want to be touched. But last night I messed up and left my vibrator out on the nightstand and I know my husband had to have seen it when he got home because he made our bed.

He didn’t say anything and neither did I but I felt mortified, and worried it hurt him to see that. 😭

What "Healthy snacks" do you feed your kids?

Do we just buy food to make snacks or prepared snacks?

Toddler in his emptying everything phase😩

My little boy will be 2 in September and for the last few weeks he’s had a sudden impulse to empty everything containing liquid🙃 cans, bottles, cups, the cats water bowl…and it’s driving me insane! Every day multiple times a day I’m having to clean the sofa or wipe the floor, almost broke my neck in the kitchen this morning!!

My question is, when does this phase end? I’m over it😑😑😑

Nursery fees

Interested to know if anyone has got a nursery sorted and how much they’re paying for how many days… I’m in shock that it’ll cost us nearly £400 a month for 3x days WITH funded hours. Wtf!!!

School for my boys..

I just wanted to share something funny that I’m sure we’ve all done or will do when are kids are not with us.

My kids started school for the summer for a couple hours, so when I get back I do as much as I can while they’re gone.
Today I’m catching up on the piles of clean clothes I need to fold.
& as I sit on my bed and put the tv on I automatically go to Netflix on my kids account to put on a kid show 😂
Instead of my account to find a show for myself.. thought it was really funny & trying to get accustomed of doing things for me while they’re at school.