What do you think?

Look, I know this isnt healthy but please refrain from making those kinds of comments and please only comment your opinion on what you think is going on. I don't need any judgement.

I left my baby daddy when I was pregnant with our first because he kept DMing girls on IG (they NEVER ONCE replied back). He also follows every single 20 something year old girl hes ever worked with (he's late 30's and works in restaurants) But he kept lying and still denies everything. Well my dumb ass took him back and am pregnant with baby #2. He became IG friends with the 25 year old social media manager of his job, he made a post and she liked it immediately. I told him to unfollow her and remove her (adding young girls on IG was a boundary of mine when we got back together) and he argued with me but ultimately did it and immediately afterwards she set her IG to private. He claims they've never even had a conversation that she added him because she does the social media. It was her personal IG not the account she runs for the restaurant.

Thoughts on what is going on between them or is it completely innocent?

AGAIN NO JUDGEMENTAL COMMENTS I'm aware we lack trust -for good reason- and this isn't a healthy aspect of our relationship

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I don't think you need anybody else to tell you what's going on,I think you deep down already know :(

personally I think once a cheat always a cheat you never really hear of anybody cheating and then never doing it again most of them repeat history either with you with the next girlfriend

if you set a boundary after breaking up and got back together and he already broke it that tells you everything you need to know

It's an awful situation to be in when you're with somebody that's a serial cheat Sending hugs

It definitely sounds like something is going on between them. Unfortunately for you, you will never know the truth.

He must really think you are dumb if he sold you the lie of her adding him on her personal IG and they’ve never even had a conversation 🤦🏽‍♀️ Come on girl, use your brain! How would she even know his IG to follow if she’s never spoken to him and also why would she be stalking his account and liking his posts immediately if he was a stranger? 🤦🏽‍♀️

This guy is out here embarrassing you and either actively cheating, or looking to do so with very young women, whilst you are pregnant with his second child. Genuine question - what do you get out of this “relationship”?

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