Why are women like this

Just so you know I’m a woman. I’m also the kind of woman who has no friends and can’t seem to make any. The more I try to put myself out there and befriend others I start to realize something. Women are incredibly picky and judgmental. There’s next to nothing you can say that a woman won’t find weird, offensive, or cringey and I’m so over pretending it’s not true. You all talk about desperate for mom friends? Half of you need a shrink, and you don’t have friends because you suck at accepting peoples differences and socialization in general.Constantly using depression and anxiety as an excuse for your ignorant behavior when you just need to stop hating yourself so much and taking it out on others. And tbh I really think it’s jealousy 🤷🏻‍♀️ If any of you actually wanted friends you’d stop being so judgy and annoying.

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This is exactly why my husband is my best friend… lol

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I don’t mean to be a bitch by saying this, but how does this line of thinking not put you in the same boat as the women you claim to find annoying? The only reason I say anything is because I used to think similarly, and it’s just a very pessimistic way of viewing other women that disregards that you do the same thing. Once I changed my beliefs on this that’s when I started to actually make friends. It’s hard to make friends with people you already decided to view in such a negative light. Not everyone is gonna be for everyone, that’s how it works man and woman imo :)

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Hi there! I have friends (women), but not so many. I made this experience at work. Its so much easier to work with men. Women judge you, bully you, because they arent satisfied with their lifes and with themselfes. They are jealous if you have a boyfriend or if you are younger etc.But it happened only in one office, where I worked (I worked in several). At the another office there were also two who told te things you told them immediately to other persons. Thats also not ok. So, yes women are not so easy, but you can find nice ones too. At one office I've found a new friend. But you have to be careful with women, thats my experience

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