Can I put baby in for 4th day at nursery?

I work 3 x a week and baby goes nursery 3 x a week, I still have some funded hours left over so can I use those hours for the 4th day even though I only work 3x a week? It would really help me get a break/stuff done

Has anyone done this?

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Husband refusing condoms

I came off birth control a few weeks back as I want to give my body a rest (bad side effects)
We have been using pull-out method but im just worried everytime incase he doesnt pull out quick enough.
He wont wear a condom and just laughed when I suggested it.
We do want to try for another baby in a few months just not right now!!

Remote jobs

If you have a remote job what do you do?

I've spent the last 6 years working remote organising fitness competitions, however as I'm just getting to the end of my maternity leave my boss has decided to close down the business.

I need to find a new job, that's ideally remote, asap but struggling to find things due to my current role being so niche

I have a stupid question…

I’ve only ever had two sexual partners. And I’ve never left a session feeling fully satisfied, and this is embarrassing to ask. Especially as a 28 year old woman, but what does it feel like to come? Am I just dumb?

Looking for a real friend. Honest intensity warning

Hi… So I’m gonna get real on here for a second. But I have always wanted a best friend, and it’s hard for some people. For others they make them in first grade and they keep growing their groups until it’s a full flock of hens.

I never got that. I had two friends and both are now in my past. I have a hard time trusting people, but I am the kind of friend that will ride or die for you. On the phone at 3am if you need someone to cry or talk to. We can talk about the weather. But let’s be honest, the friendships come from the moments when you’re real with each other.

I’ve had too many fake friends and flake friends, I am not that person… I want a best friend and I want them to want one just as bad. And together. With the effort we both put in, we can have a friendship that’ll last decades into our kids lifetimes. Idc if it’s on the phone or by discord or FaceTime but anything is better than being alone in this world, as a mom, especially in this day and age where we are shamed for having a village let alone a support system. So I want to be that for you, I know that’s VERY intense but… That’s just me being 100% about the sort of vibe/friendship I’m looking for.

Real, honest, loyal, no judgement.

Message me if I didn’t immediately scare you away. 🌸🌻

Girl bestie

I want my own friend. I want a friend that I don’t have to second guess, that I can trust and vent to. I want a friend I can hang with or stay in with. Like we don’t have to be outside all the time let’s stay in and cook and drink. I want a friend I can do ratchet stuff with but also do classy stuff with. I want a pretty friend because I don’t want her to ever feel like I’m dimming her light nor do I want her to be jealous of me. I want a friend that doesn’t have other friends that don’t like me, it’ll never ever be peace like that. I don’t wanna have to wonder if you’re defending my name behind my back because your friend doesn’t like me. I want a friend that will forgive me for my mistakes like ima do her. I want a friend that doesn’t count favors. I want a friend I can introduce to my family and they actually remember her because she will always be around…family functions, family trips, holidays, etc. I want a friend I can spoil and feel the love in return. I don’t wanna feel like I’m being used for showing love. Life happens and you live and you learn. You definitely grow apart from people but I wanna grow old with my friend. I want ME out of someone. #WishfulThinking
#Denver,co

Gift ideas for first father’s day?

My husband is really simple and doesn’t buy anything for himself. What can I give him that is cute and thoughtful but also somewhat useful? Please help!