Consideration

Nope it’s not just you! ♥️ I went through the same thing!

You have every right to feel the way you feel. Also remind yourself it’s also okay to take a breather from all that you just had a baby and all you want is sometime to you and your baby to get adjusted to a routine. But also remind yourself that you need to and you need to be taken care of. To get your coffee , nails done, long shower , or take you and the baby for a walk whatever you can do for you to feel good 😌! Mommy friend here knows exactly how your feeling 💘

Some of my in-laws (who were recently gone no contact with) were very rude and inconsiderate on me. Even “small” like acting like my daughter gets everything about her from (their) “our side of the family” 😪

Yes or they will tell you what u should do or ask if you did it but never offer help or ask if your okay.

My mum always told me to ask how mum was doing before asking about the baby, it’s been instilled in me from such a young age. Always say “wow you look amazing, how are you finding things” or “how are you coping? How is it going?” etc. so I just naturally gravitate to mum first and as soon as she’s given the all clear I ask about baby. I know if you’ve shown up with your child that that baby is doing just fine 🤣