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Hey, I’m feeling down and idk why. I think about my life and I have what I need food, clothes, shelter, I don’t have to work. But I’m lonely, have no self esteem and my man is talking to another woman. They haven’t done anything but he’s chatting and saying it feels good to be wanted. Technically this has nothing to do with me because he’s not replacing me but for some reason I still feel like shit

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That post is weird. Saying you have everything you need in that context is the exact same absurd thing to say abot baby is fed and clean butt, why is he even crying ??? Our basic needs as humans are not only to have food and a roof. Also his behavior is not so bad because he is not replacing you..? Nothing is fine here. Please set healthy boundaries for yourself and a few standards. You deserve better

Im sorry u going through this and honestly i understand, im almost on my due date and honestly i feel like i have let myself go.
I found out not long ago my baby daddy was on hinge and talking to multiple people… he has not yet done anything but he’s still looking for smth.. so honestly don’t blame urself if ur man stops wanting u that’s just him wanting an excuse to go out and cheat…
Never forget u are creating something far more precious than him and if I was u I would leave cause the moment he gets the chance he will sleep with someone else and still not feel guilty about it 🤍🤍🤍god will give u strength

Um it’s still cheating if he talking to these women like he wants them and they want him for sure cheating ! And if the sending pics girl even worse! He is doing this to make you jealous and that’s sick . If he’s telling you, he’s not trying to replace you and they’re only talking and it feels good then yeah he’s trying to make you jealous not sure what kind of joy he’s being out of this if he thinks your going be more about him just cause another women wants him that’s toxic

Ur sad because your husband is having an emotions affair... id be sad too

Why is he chatting to another woman.. it has everything to do with you if you are together.. not acceptable sorry. It's just disrespectful and trying to make you jealous by the sounds of it! You may be feeling down because of him

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Am I thinking wrong

I'm 10 weeks pregnant...recently visited to my doc for checkups....his inspection itself aroused me🤪. I don't think he did anything wrong ....but his gentle touches....seems made me wet ....and i can't forget the touches....is this normal? I am still with my partner and he loves me. I love him too. But this checkup is something is not going off my mind. Don't know if I sud tell this to my partner. Am I not thinking straight. Anyone else ever felt something similar?

Anyone help

Why is loneliness during pregnancy so difficult, I find being alone for even 5 minutes is difficult

Partner and work

I don't want to be a stay at home parent, I'm on maternity leave and have ( unfortunately had to take 8 months when I wanted to return to work at 3 but they didn't respond to me) I love my boy but I just can't handle being fully relied upon all day every day, day and night no break.
So it has been tough I have discussed how hard it's been for me staying home and how much I've wanted to go back to work for nearly 6 months to my partner. Told him I'd swap roles and he can stay home which he declined
My partner has recently been looking for jobs and they're full time finish at 5 back between 6-7 so he'd work far away and wouldnt help with school or anything kids related
I'm not a fan of this which I've said about many many times but he can't find part time work in his area and I don't drive so my work opportunity is rubbish.
I don't want to be the stay at home parent and I won't do it if I'm paying half the bills.
Ive never had someone pay for me, it makes me uncomfortable like I owe them. The most I've gone it 50/50 split with bills etc.
This is split proportionally. But my partner has savings from before me and I havnt had an income in over a year now just benefits which mostly goes on bills
I don't think it's fair I pay splits on rent if I'm doing everything child related and at home but I don't want him to pay for me either. He knows this
I dunno I'm pretty annoyed he knows where I stand on this and how much I want to return to work ( I'm starting 1 day a week, but that's not guaranteed at all)
But keeps applying for more jobs further away longer hours etc, I feel abit taken the piss out of, especially since we agreed I'd stay home with the 1st and him the 2nd but coincidentally after having my boy and struggling in everyway possible he now doesn't want a 2nd, or to split time off with the 1st, but made out like I was the reason, as when I asked why he no longer wanted another he gave me a look, smirked n said I wouldn't like the answer.
Communication isn't the issue, I'll voice my opinions as will he, but there's only so much telling I can do before I just don't care anymore. He doesn't care to help me out with my mental health or taking part of the childcare load why should I even bother discussing anything anymore.
When I ask how I'll work around him and the kids his response other then asking if my mum can take him( yes she can but then she'll need a lift home and I'll need picking up from work as buses don't run that late and I know he will complain constantly about it so there's no point ) he then says oh so should I turn it down.
I usually talk it through with him but recently I've been saying I don't care anymore do what you like

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