Hi Mum friends

Hi! I’m Lilly, 21, from New Zealand. 🇳🇿

My husband and I are hoping to move to Australia next year, so I’d love to start making some mum friends before we get there. 🤍

I’m trying to conceive, so whether you’re also trying for a baby, currently pregnant, a new mum, or already have little ones, I’d love to connect and make some genuine friendships.

I’m kind, caring, and looking for supportive, friends to chat with and hopefully meet one day if we end up living nearby.

Feel free to say hi! 😊

in our community

Escape plan…

I’m currently 32 weeks pregnant with my second baby and have a 23 month old toddler. I had quite severe PNA when my first was born and found it really hard to adjust to motherhood as my village is quite far from me and my partner works long hours. My partner knew all my anxieties over becoming a working mum of 2 and recently went away to bury his grandmother and somehow had time to start an affair with someone he met out there. Mind you he has an easy life as is, comes home to a clean house/clothes, sleeping baby and food on the table. Our relationship has been under strain for the past few months but I never thought he’d stoop so low to do this to me. But hey such is life, we are from the UK and I need advice on how to secretly move my money from our joint accounts while secretly saving money to leave because I’ll be damned if I stay with someone I don’t trust and who doesn’t love me.

Bestie where u at???

Trying to make mom friends and it be hard out here. If you like sarcasm, honesty, and fierce loyalty hit me up. I’m a tad bit goofy, love a good Adam Sandler movie, and covered in tattoos so if that doesn’t scare ya away please dm me. I have a 3yr old boy and an 1.5yr old girl. My son is on the spectrum, we have no outside help, so I need some form of village and I’m determined to build on myself. I’m shy at first but I’ll do my best to respond and not be boring af. Just trying to find moms who are trying to be better for themselves and there kids but also knows how to kick back and have a good time💛✨💛

Tomorrow I’m ordering Chinese takeout.i haven’t eaten out in about 6 months,we have been trying to eat only homemade and it wasn’t hard .Ordering out used to be nothing but I’m so excited it feels really worth it.

Do you eat out much?

Partner

How do you all feel if you’re with your partner and he looks at another woman in-front of you ?? And you can clearly tell he’s looking at their ass or chest? And it’s not just an instinct reaction because he doesn’t do it with all woman just certain ones. It hurts my feelings so bad it makes me feel so insecure and if I bring it up he gets mad.

Opinions

Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 2 years ( we are both 22 years old ) and we have a 3 month old after I gave birth we used to have sex all the time after the 6 week mark but my hormones have been all over the place i don’t want to be touched or to have sex I don’t have a sex drive anymore it’s been nearly a month since we’ve had sex I’ve told him Nicely that I’m just too over simulated to be touched or have sex I’m so tired , we also have a nearly 3 year old ( which is his step daughter ) but recently he’s been making me feel a certain way he makes comments like ‘ I pay for everything least you could do is have sex with me ‘ or like imma shit gf for not having sex with him he saying I make him feel like he has to beg to have sex , I never asked him to beg!!! I told him I’m just not in the mood to have sex I’m too tired or my hormones are just making me not want to be touched !! I also have 2 kids that cling on to me for dear life lol , also the way he speaks to me sometimes like he’s nasty last thing I want to do is have sex with him !!! Rant over sorry girls is this me falling out of love with him with how he speaks to me or is it actually my hormones ??? xx

Who wants part of this hectic group chat?

Because why the hell not, RIGHT?!