Controversial buttttt…here we gooooo

Parents who give big speeches about how awful formula is and breastmilk is the only good option and then feed their 7m olds jars or pouches are contradicting themselves. Processed shit just full of apple at this point.

Weaning is introducing solids, teaching your baby how to eat not just feeding them something other than milk. The majority of babies nutrition is coming from milk at this age.

Listen, I’m all for an easy option from time to time and I know full BLW is scary. But I promise steaming some plain veggies and mashing it up is easy and if you can pre make whatever you want to feed them it’s cheaper and does not take long.

I think the fact the NHS have now changed from the term weaning to saying introduce solids emphasis my point they the aim isn’t to get them off milk and onto jars or pouches of food at the age. It’s to teach them HOW to eat.

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I don't think you can judge people who are judging one feeding choice by judging another person's feeding choice 😬 We did purées under medical advisement after our daughter had an extremely difficult start in life, she had an operation at one day old and struggled to put on weight. I put a lot of effort into making her purées and fortifying them to give them extra calories, I was devastated that we had to do weekly weight checks and that I couldn't do the feeding style I had initially wanted. But I guess I'm lazy. I don't love the pouches because they're not particularly healthy but I understand why people use them and it's not my place to criticise. I certainly wouldn't be telling someone doing purée feeding that they're doing something wrong by not doing BLW. They learn to eat with purées. Most of us were weaned with purées and we can eat just fine....

I’m not sure I’ve ever come across anyone, either on here or in real life, who is vocally anti formula but then using jars and pouches. Not sure how I would even notice that correlation. What prompted this post?

I wish I was good at breastfeeding but I’m not. Maybe it’s because I have anxiety. Some moms want to milk the babies but can’t. I don’t know why this is bothering you so much. I think it’s time to breathe and focus on yourself.

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