Fun or Sin?

Wait, he’s fantasizing about your sister? 😳

A little weird game ,but you can talk to him all tell to him you feel uncomfortable doing it ,maybe you can suggest using actors name instead of close people from you guys

That would make me feel really objectified, violated and angry if I knew someone was doing that towards me. It’s really disrespectful of the people in your life, especially without their consent or knowledge. Even more strange that this also includes close family.

And yes, if you’re talking about Christianity….it would be considered a sin. We all make mistakes or get ourselves into bad or wrong situations, but I would definitely stop doing it.

This is really going to harm your relationships with these people.

It feels like this may have been more his idea, but regardless if you both aren’t agreeing, then it’s a no go, regardless. And the fact that he wants to continue and go as far as doing it in real life is a massive red flag. Couples counseling is in order.

With your COUSIN!? 🤢

That’s a huge problem! He’s imagining doing it with your sister or cousin?!?! You and his best friend? 100% KNOCK IT OFF!! You’re objectifying close people in your life. My husband and I imagine it’s with some stranger dude but even that makes me feel super guilty. I know he’d be extremely hurt if I imagined someone I know and I would be if he was trying to forget I was me and imagining I was someone else. Him saying let’s make it real is the biggest red flag and spells disaster to your relationship. A lot of people think polyamory can work but I’ve seen so many instances where the “primary” people or married people get jealous or hurt. If you guys add a third and then your husband starts hanging with her without you, you’d hate it. Pls do not go down this road. If you want to see other people just break up. Don’t complicate and ruin your marriage and confuse your kids like this!

What your feelin is conviction. Very simple tell him how your feel .