Hallucinating or no?

Ok so it's 10pm at night. 2 people in bed, blue and white. White is usually asleep by 9:30 but goes to take a shower at 10.

Blue, who is and was awake hears moaning (and heavy breathing) and jokes that they could have helped (white get off). The text chain in the comments follows.

Blue then says they must be hallucinating and to ignore them. White doesn't respond.

Bkue apologises imfor causing a problem, the next morning. White says "it's ok".

Do we think Blue was hallucinating? Or was White lying?

Please, please, please help.

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Think you've just made him feel awkward tbh

That was my gut instinct too 😂

Are we saying he was watching 🌽? And that’s the moaning u heard? Is that what we mean by visuals? And he’s saying it’s visuals aka 🌽 of you ? Or am I reading this completely wrong🤣

My gut would say that white did not think blue could hear, and felt guilty/embarressed when blue pointed out that they could hear? Not so much lying more embarressed and saving face perhaps. Unless they have a history of/tendancy towards hallucinating of course. Then it would be much harder to say.

Definitely no hallucinations going on, they just went for a wank and got quizzed about it and felt awkward. The 'well you can if you want' was an invitation to join and instead there was the suggestion of watching porn and it seemed to go tits up from there.

Blue / white is sending me as well 🙃😂

EDIT - should I talk to him about this? If so, how? I plan to also speak to my therapist next time as I am legitimately concerned that I am hallucinating or that something else is going on.

Blue and white is very confusing, I think being incognito anyway you’d be fine to say me / him / her 😅

Either way there was definitely no hallucinations happening unless you usually experience them.

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