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Initiating sex with husband

2 small children, we both work full time, we’ve been together 15 years, I’m really curious to hear just the little things you do to initiate sex or get him going, I’m thinking along the lines of asking for a massage, not wearing underwear…what do you do? Looking for inspo!

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My man loves me through thick and thin he can’t get enough. Maybe you should just try to get-with your husband non-stop and become insatiable and he will get the picture that you want more.

Put your hands on him and just try all the time

Pinch his bum when you walk past him 🤣

I just ask him if he wants to have sex 😆 I'll admit I do nothing special, I'm exhausted and pregnant with a toddler and he's just happy to be getting some so it's ok

My husband naturally has a clock of every 4 days where he feels like it, so he initiates himself. But if I feel like it, I would wear a dress that’s sexy, put more effort in my makeup and that’s pretty much it. Lingeries under your night gown too

Morning touches that begin with rubbing his chest and lots of kisses, putting my feet all over him (I swear he's not a "foot guy" but he loves the touch and the taboo and watching me try to use them on him, and I love getting a pedicure and messing with him cos it's even more soft and pleasing!!), sometimes I just posture or shake my butt at him and that's enough (though we don't have kids yet so I know you'd have to do that when babies aren't watching haha), talking about fantasies like car sex or nasty stuff we did in the past, telling him how hot he is to me!!

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Why is it so hard to make genuine female friendships

Honestly I’m starting to think I’m the problem, I hate forcing things and it seems like women want to be chased down for a friendship. Why not put the same effort yall put into a relationship into a friendship

Hello

I’m sorry guys but I really need to vent and get this off my chest
I’m a mom of 3 and my last baby is 2 months
My husband decided when I was pregnant was the best time to cheat on me with multiple women
I thought I could stomach it and be fine with it but it is draining me
He have sex with multiple women and lie about it,even till this minute he still talk with those women
He had no idea I go through his phone and see everything
I’ll complain that we are becoming distance day by day and he will say it’s all in my head that we are fine
They all chat day in,day out
I’m exhausted and tired
How am I supposed to believe anything he tells me
How am I suppose to believe the love he said he has for me is real
Gosh
I don’t know how to handle this

Mother in law buy clothes and hygiene items for your partner. How would you feel?

Not for a specific occasion. Just bought him stuff eg belt, perfume, shoes, work trousers etc
This is a couple pairs of items.
My husband’s excuse is that it’s because he is starting a new job. But she started buying him stuff before this isn’t the only time.

Context: She doesn’t like me or her grandchild, she didn’t come to our wedding and have never seen their grandchild.
Husband moved close to them for work living in his bros house but not with the parents directly. They wanted him to move so badly and facilitated the move.

How would you feel? Thing is, he has no extra cash for our son that he has left with me. He pays the mortgage but I have to do everything else myself including childcare. Yet he has meta glasses and starting to live luxuriously meanwhile I look like trash. Maybe I should accept gifts from other men because as far as my dad is concerned my husband is responsible for my upkeep so I won’t be getting such from my parents.

Random rant…

My baby fathers mom came in town for the week . She stayed with us at my house the last 2 nights she was in town. Last night he went out and we were talking . She said to me “ I hope you don’t be mad at me that I go see this girl and that girl that’s just what he wants “ so im like im my head is she implying that he had her going to see a whole bunch of different girls 🤨…. She also goes to say she hopes he marry me and she don’t know why he be back in forth with this women and that women but we belong together and she can tell he loves me ??? We had a long talk and when I say im soooo lost it’s like she is telling me he is cheating without telling me but asking me to stay ?? Today is his birthday but im kinda giving him a attitude because I want to address some things but I don’t want to ruin his bday nor do I want to throw his mom under the bus ☹️☹️☹️mindful im 10 weeks away from having his first son ( out of 8 kids tho ) oh and she also basically told me the first few nights she was in town she stayed over his recent babymothers house ( because my grand babies are there was her reason ) but he lied and told me she was staying with his sister… mindful I just got into a physical fight with the babymother 2 weeks ago ( YES SHE CAME TO MY HOUSE TO FIGHT BECAUSE SHE GOT WIND THAT IM PREGNANT ) .

Partner has a foot fetish 🦶🏾 🦶🏿 🦶🏻

How would you feel about your partner having a foot fetish? Looking at other women's feet online.

We haven't had sex in a minute. Because I am not honey at all, in fact the complete opposite. He is worried to have sex while pregnant in case he hurts the baby.

So I guess he has to get it off somehow.

I'm completely not phased about it. But I have a friend who would be loosing her mind if her partner did. So I'm just curious what you all think.

Gifting

Hey. So I know other here in the uk you can but teachers presents at the end of the year would you buy your preschool a present if your child’s leaving after 2 years