Hello

I’m sorry guys but I really need to vent and get this off my chest
I’m a mom of 3 and my last baby is 2 months
My husband decided when I was pregnant was the best time to cheat on me with multiple women
I thought I could stomach it and be fine with it but it is draining me
He have sex with multiple women and lie about it,even till this minute he still talk with those women
He had no idea I go through his phone and see everything
I’ll complain that we are becoming distance day by day and he will say it’s all in my head that we are fine
They all chat day in,day out
I’m exhausted and tired
How am I supposed to believe anything he tells me
How am I suppose to believe the love he said he has for me is real
Gosh
I don’t know how to handle this

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Im here if you need support please text me it will help if you can get it all out and if you need to cry its understandable ive been in this situation and my ex even got someone pregnant so youre not alone. If it would help I could also send you my cell number so we can chat in private. Its entirely up to you. I hope you feel better soon

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Love you can talk to me. I kind of experienced something similar with my first.

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Hello

I’m sorry guys but I really need to vent and get this off my chest
I’m a mom of 3 and my last baby is 2 months
My husband decided when I was pregnant was the best time to cheat on me with multiple women
I thought I could stomach it and be fine with it but it is draining me
He have sex with multiple women and lie about it,even till this minute he still talk with those women
He had no idea I go through his phone and see everything
I’ll complain that we are becoming distance day by day and he will say it’s all in my head that we are fine
They all chat day in,day out
I’m exhausted and tired
How am I supposed to believe anything he tells me
How am I suppose to believe the love he said he has for me is real
Gosh
I don’t know how to handle this

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