My bd and I have been trying to work things out…
He has been coming over mainly because he’s got no where to stay and he’s not allowed here because we fight and will both get physical but 2 nights ago he got real crazy on me again and I could see his schizophrenia psychosis episode start and I’m remembering why I left and how absolutely crazy he makes me. He’s the scariest person when mad,
can’t remember why he was mad but he literally walked in my house angry when we were just supposed to have a good night and watch movies and cuddle and sleep.
The pic below just really shows how he makes sure to only hurt me a enough so it doesn’t show, he told me like 4 times to shut the fuck up before I get knocked out when I just wanted to fucking go back to bed.
He ended up leaving and coming back like 4 times then finally stopped and basically said he’s sorry and just wanted to go to bed…👀 we ended up going to sleep but my nerves were so shot I’m still shaky trying to remember even what happened fully.
He not at a mental health clinic getting help, yesterday he had another experience where god talked to him (we believe in god but this isn’t god when he explains what the voices are telling him) luckily his mom was the person who he called to tell her the “good” new and she immediately came and got him.
My eczema has came back because of the stress he puts me under, I love him but I should have to live my life constantly being yelled at or being called an idiot or slow daily because I don’t understand certain things I am asd. He’s a programmer so I don’t understand most things in his world anyways but I’m constantly belittled or whenever I try and share my own interests it’s shut down or he doesn’t even listen to me and goes “huh sorry I thinking about something” and it kinda kills the vibes.
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I am going through the same thing with mine smh
You should not be working things out. You both fight and get physical with each other that is toxic. You should be blocking him and calling the police if he comes over. He has mental health issues and he gets violent. He is going to end up killing you.
You need to leave before it ends very badly. This isn't going to get better
Hey dear. I will say i was in a relationship like this when i was younger. We didnt have a kid. But i will say… FOCUS on YOU! I know that is hard to hear because this is baby daddy but u have to put yourself and kid first. He will be fine. He will figure things out and find a place to stay. U focus on taking care of yourself mentally emotionally spiritually
hey hun i understand it a bit my boyfriends dad is schizophrenic and i see his struggles, his mum tried to stay with his dad to keep the family together and it turned out even worse for everyone. i would deffo try to get him to see a mental health specialist before it gets worse so they can try help and get him on medication. if he is refusing help u should try and walk away or at least distance urselves it is not healthy for u or ur kid to be around when he is in these states especially if he is turning violent
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