Probs obvious who I am because I’ve been commenting about this but incog because I don’t want this showing on my profile 🤣
Could be as little as the way they use a knife and fork, use of the 🥺 emoji, or how my last ex changed his socks at least 4x per day because his feet sweat so much🥲
I don’t leave bc of these things but they put me off so much that I stop making an effort and we drift apart until one of us calls it
I’m not even bothered that much in the moment but the icks add up until I lose all attraction to them😭 am I just a judgy biatch? can I blame it on my adhd? 😂
I realise I’m probably in the minority bc most of you are in long term relationships so either you don’t get the ick or can look past them, but howwww?
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Learn more about our guidelines.What kind of icks are we looking past? I need to know if I’m just insanely picky or if my icks are normal hahaha
And those of you who are the same, are you single or do you just have a perfect partner?

I look past that my husband is incapable of putting clothes away properly, but I’m piss poor at it to tbh. 😂 we’re both just completely fine with clean bins in the mudroom/laundry room that we sift through. So I guess he’s looking past it too 🤷🏼♀️
Toddlers clothes are put away due to well, basically guilt 😂

I was awful for this too until I met my partner, now he could have food in his teeth and I wouldn’t be like “ok ick bye.” 🤣 I do think when you’re with the right person silly things don’t bother you so deeply like that.
He for sure gets on my last nerve sometimes though looool

I’m single and exactly the same, and I do a similar thing where once I’ve got the ick, I show less interest and text back slowly until they think I don’t like them and go away. Sometimes I’m passive aggressive, which isn’t very nice, and the reasons can be so stupid.
My last ick was due to the way a man curled his lip upwards when he drank water. I couldn’t overlook it and he made me feel sick after that.
Another one is when men send this emoji 😂 after their own attempt at humour. Just foul.