Husband divorcing me today

I dont want it to happen. I want my married with children happy life.

He treats me so badly though. Like an appliance.

I know he would cut me loose in an instant if I was sick or elderly and of no use to him.

Why do I keep wanting him? He love bombed me so good in the beginning and I deeply long to go back to that time.

I have an old love letter from him and he told me the colors were brighter because of me.

Now he hates me.

In the beginning I sacrificed nothing but I was young and new.

Now I have given up everything and gave him a child and he treats me like scum.

Like Im used up and its on to the next victim 😭

You will rise above this. This will work out in your favor. You should be able to get child support. I’m sorry you’re going through this, but it sounds like it’s for the best. Sending hugs and good vibes your way.

Hey, sending love. Divorce seems the best to happen in your situation you deserve to be loved and respected, so is your child needs to have his mom happy. You are hurt and don’t want that bc you are still attached of the idea of a false him that he showed to you bc he’s just a sad narcissist pervert. They only take joy in life by hurting the other. Him asking divorce willingly is the best thing that can happen, it’s hard now but you are gonna be free to live the life you deserve. My mom lived 19y with a shitty narcissist pervert and even after her escaping at last he still blocks dicorce matter and after all this she has nothing as it took all her life.
Don’t waste yours, divorce is gonna make you free to have what you deserve, you deserve to be happy, respected, loved.
He is jalous of you and hurting you is his only way to feel a little happiness. He manipulated you to make you think he was someone else and you are just still attached to this idea but soon you will feel better

Situations like this remind me of the saying ‘cutting off your nose to spite your face’. Rarely does divorces do justice to any sides of the relationship especially when it’s not due to violence or adultery and now that he has kids with you. It won’t be easy on him and I guarantee he will check up on you and/or harden his own heart where he will be easily irritable with life. I observed my male family members that really shouldn’t had divorced over stressful of arguments with their wives and instead should have worked through it.

i’m sure there are things you and your partner could work on to make your marriage work. seek wise counsel. don’t let your ego become inflated like his ego.