Advice - Mother In Law

Excuse my language but what the fuck. You have every right to know what is being done to your child. The fact that he wont tell you is automatic red flag. My child would never see their grandparents again, I would be taking their asses to court.

Document this stuff!! Take vids, pics, etc of how your baby is reacting and their bruising. Take/write down notes. Get enough evidence to take them to court and get custody of your child!!!

I’m confused why he think them doing you a favor can involve possibly endangering or harming, even if technically unintentional, your child.

He sounds more concerned to keep his parents happy than your concern with his child’s environment/well being in their care and just dismissing you about it. Which is, icky priorities as a parent and partner.

So they don't get to see him alone anymore.

I have every right to question the care of my child, regardless of who is watching him.

And id be questioning my partner as a parent if they truly believe that the safety and care of our child is negotiable or not up for discussing if someone is doing us a favor by watching them...i think he is choosing to not upset or offend his parents and I get it BUT this cant be at the cost of your own child?

And if we're fighting about it, then fuck that. His parents would never be allowed to see my child without MY bring present. Thats it.

Thanks everyone, it is unintentional but if it was my side I’d openly have the conversations straight away. In such a hard position when I’m dismissed for raising it 😮‍💨