Am I over thinking?

So I snapped at hubby earlier, and its kind feeling different now. I had given our 2 year old daughter a bath, and was fighting with her to brush her hair before bed. Next to me was our 4 month old son, screaming for attention. Hubby was trying to get ready for bed, and not paying attention. So when I snapped at him to help me out, he asked what I wanted, and I snapped at him to "be a parent" because I always feel like the one taking care of the baby, and not our little girl too. That we each just have one kid when they're both ours. The reason this is bothering me, is I just heard her wake up in the middle of the night, saying "its cold in here" almost perfectly. I feel like I ignore her needs all the time. That my care for her is sporadic, and hubby is the only one doing so. Tonight, I comforted her during a sleep regression, and her very clearly saying what she wanted. We currently staying in a 1 room motel that the state pays for. He co sleeps with her, and I co sleep with the baby because he still breastfeeds. My depression makes me feel so distant all the time... and I worry I'm not doing a good enough job engaging with my daughter.

in our community

Am I in the wrong

I suggested to my husband that he could maybe one night every couple of weekends he could get up with the kids. At the minute im up about 5 times a night with both kids so hardly getting any sleep. Im happy to do this during the week as he is working and im on Mat leave but i dont think its unreasonable for once in a while for me to have one nights sleep. Also I do all the cooking/cleaning/childcare.
He just said no, he has a physical job and his body needs rest. He said he'll end up ill if he doesnt get his sleep. Im just really tired and expected to do everything all the time because im on mat leave.

Toddler asking for food all day long

I am genuinely getting concerned about how often my child asks for food.
It can be as soon as 15 minutes after a meal and she will be asking for lunch or a snack.
It doesn't matter what she has - carbs, meat, cheese, fruit, yogurt - she never seems full up?!
She will keep asking for a snack continuously until I give her something.
It feels like she's asking out of habit but she will always eat whatever I give her.

Potty training!

Ok, the time has come… I’m thinking my 22 month old is ready for potty training, but I really don’t know where to start….. any help or tips/tricks? Thank you!!!! ❤️

(Genuinely curious) Would you let your child

Would you let your child read trans educational books if they’re offered in the school library? When answering please say a reason why

Would you get annoyed at your sister?

So our hot water wasn’t working, as the boiler pressure was down.
I called to report it, and the landlord was telling me that we should try boiling hot water, and putting it in a plastic container and washing ourselves in the kitchen ( as I said I don’t want to carry boiling water to the bathroom with two small kids). ( as a temporary fix while someone comes to repair).

And I told my mum who was with me ( my mum was in a group call with my sister and aunts). And my sister said they tried tricking you guys, and we said no, and she said they tricked Bethany ( meaning me).

It’s fine if she just said it to me, but they were on a group call with other aunties! I felt so undermined. I got annoyed saying what trick are you talking about! So now the aunts gonna think I’m disrespectful?

He so cute playground at the playground

Yesterday had so much fun yesterday