Being a mum

I’m a mum to a 2 year old with no help or support the dad used to see them but just proved yet another person can’t be trusted, what even is this generation of lack of humanity, I’m so exhausted I have insomnia and adhd and I am so tired constantly and people say nap and I do and I wake up to her ripping my baby scan pictures up and on top of the tv stand, body launching herself on me she starts nursery in September so I’ll get a little bit of a break. I have no friends like at all

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Hi I’m from Northern Ireland im kind of in a similar situation in regards to no friends but with partners family

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Hi, send me a message. I’ll add you to the mums support group on WhatsApp. Loads of women who can relate. We can help each other through this.

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Hey sends a message xx

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ATTENTION Moms located in or near RAYTOWN MISSOURI!!!

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Hey mamas! 👋💕

Im a 38 year old first-time mom in the Raytown/Kansas City area looking to find some mom friends and hopefully build a little village. Apparently nowadays, making friends as an adult is way harder than it was in kindergarten 😂

Other than my boyfriend, I don’t really have a support system — my mom is out of state currently on hospice, and I have zero friends. And I mean zero I don't even text back and forth with anybody other than my mom and my boyfriend and sometimes my sister.

I’m hoping to find some genuine friendships — someone to chat with, laugh with, vent to, share mom wins and struggles with, and maybe eventually do coffee dates, walks, playdates, or just hang out while our little ones play.

No pressure and no expectations — just looking for some kind, down-to-earth moms who are also looking for their people ❤️

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Need some honest advice

Hi moms, I need some advice.

I’m a first-time mom and 9 months pregnant. Yesterday, my boyfriend and I got into an argument over something that honestly didn’t seem like a huge deal to me. During the argument, he said, “I’m just speaking my mind to you—don’t be surprised if I get up one day and leave you.”

Since then, I haven’t been able to get those words out of my head. Today he’s acting nice and everything seems normal, but I can’t stop thinking about what he said. It really hurt me, and now I feel like I’ve lost trust in him completely.

Am I overthinking this because I’m so close to giving birth, or would those words stick with you too? How would you handle this?

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Kourtnee

As you can see, you already know my name, so let’s skip that part lol. I’m a second-time mom, and my first crotch goblin is autistic, but I love his little tism lol. I’m from the metro Detroit area and wanted to meet other mothers as well. I’m pretty open and cuss a lot, so if you’re very sensitive and extremely modest, I may not be the best match for you. I hope I can find my people and get to build a friend/mom group 🩷

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Can't sleep. Wanna chat?

It's 2:30 am. My 6 month old is sleeping in his crib for the first time. This is the longest he's slept in weeks... that means I can't sleep. 😭 I'm so bored. Does anyone wanna chat? 😅

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My husband has a girlfriend

Even though that I had said to my husband that I was alright for him to have a girlfriend I still feel a bit jealous because she had asked him if he would like to go upstate to go and see her for the whole week and I’m 36 weeks pregnant. I’m just so afraid of him not being able to come back on time when it’s time for our son to be born and I’m so afraid that let’s say if those two get intimate with each other, I don’t know if he’s gonna come back to me with something. I am bisexual and I always did wanted to have a sister wife, but she said that she will only be with a female whenever she is drunk. I’m not comfortable with that, but I love this man to the point where I want to see him happy I honestly don’t know how to tell him because him and this woman had known each other for a short period of time I knew him for about a good year we met last August and our son will be born in August probably even a little earlier than that but I’m just so afraid that I may lose him to her if y’all ladies was in my shoes, how would y’all go about this?

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Am I trippin … like

I’ve never been so upset and sad in my life! I’m 3 months pregnant and he just walked out on me and left without a word all because of a domestic incident he got in the mail back the month of march. Mind you, I’m not gonna let anybody do me any kind of way and just sit back and take it .., you will be held accountable.. moral of story he has a warrant of course and also for a dwi and his chances of getting a new job are low. He definitely knew about his warrants and now is trying to blame me .
I told him we can just break up I’m not gonna keep repeating these cycles he said ok. I was excited to have my son just found out the gender today and now it’s like… do I even keep the kid … ? I don’t want to be depressed . Honestly can’t even believe someone who did me wrong could walk out on me !

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