14 month old taking off cloth diaper

Hi all. I use Alvababy adjustable pocket diapers. My 14 month old baby boy is constantly unsnapping his diapers. Most of the time it is right after he pees, but other times his diaper is dry.

Anyone experience this? Any advice?

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