Questioning who’s my sons father is..

I became pregnant back in October 2025, found out very early, went to get an ultrasound done was told I was maybe 3-4 weeks. Anywho, I was given a due date of July 20th 2026 had him on July 12th. I’m needing help with two intercourse dates.. there’s more to the story but please someone help me with all this confusion and anxiety I’m dealing with..

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Who does he look like

With stuff like this it helps if u have a 2 photo of the people ur talking about and ur son pic

This happened with my friend and we found out that way

She even got a dna test and it was positive he was indeed the daddy

Due dates are not accurate. My oldest was due in mid May came first week of june and there was no question as to who her dad was but was a 3.week difference

Dna test

DNA test. Also if you know each man's blood type you can use that to determine the father based on your blood type and your child's

But October 18th is a day in question.. I’ve tracked my pregnancy pretty early on and was given July 20th due date never changed. I’m hoping October 18th isn’t what caused this pregnancy

More info is needed. When was your ultrasound? What is the other date?

If you where 3-4 weeks, you likely would have conceived 1 or 2 weeks before your ultrasound. Spern can live for up to 5 days prior to conception. So I think any sex within the nearly 3 weeks prior to your ultrasound could have resulted in your bub.

Do a DNA test to be sure though. A blood test during pregnancy could have sorted this all out. Do they know?

Just get a DNA test and tell the two guys you need help to figure out who the father is. Dang, Maury needs to come back and help this girl out.

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Questioning who’s my sons father is..

I became pregnant back in October 2025, found out very early, went to get an ultrasound done was told I was maybe 3-4 weeks. Anywho, I was given a due date of July 20th 2026 had him on July 12th. I’m needing help with two intercourse dates.. there’s more to the story but please someone help me with all this confusion and anxiety I’m dealing with..

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