Whilst potty training what do they sleep in?

My 2.5yo has been potty training for just under a month now & is doing really well with both pees & poos on the potty (even emptying her potty into the loo herself, flushing & washing her hands - so proud🥹🥰)

I don't know whether or not I'm doing the process a disservice by allowing her to still sleep in a nappy but I'm unsure how to go about nighttime as she still wakes up with a full nappy.

Any tips/advice?

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Need opinions, I’m a sahm 22 with a 9m old, fiance 22 works full time 8-12 hr shifts for backstory he works m-f sometimes sat it’s been rare for Saturdays but I feel as though I’m losing interest in the relationship I’m not sure what it is or why he’s amazing he helps with baby on weekends that’s his “shift with baby” but idk what it is his bsf has been living with us for 3 weeks now certain stuffs been bothering me for ex. His friend taking my cigs (gross ik) but he hasn’t addressed him abt it as my fiance and man of the house I would’ve thought he would have said something, there was another issue that I feel as though he hasn’t properly defended me on people I’ve talked to abt it said he’s should’ve been kicked out due to him causing a disturbance but my fiance has that I can’t do that to him mentality which I love that he values others but idk ik we’re young and he has growing to do but I keep finding myself in a I want a man or for him to be like a man I have no clue where the shift even came from, I found myself talking to him saying I’m losing interest, we barley spend time together and if so we’re on our phones or doing the deed that there’s not much else he’s gotten us paint stuff from his parents so we can do that but it’s been sitting in his car I find myself asking him or reminding him to do certain things which also is slightly annoying it’s just idk I’d like some feedback good or bad (my grammar sucks) just needed thoughts and feedback

People bringing their ACTIVELY sick children to playgroups is why I choose nature first for our son

Before anyone says anything, yes I'm aware kids get sick... No shit. Doesn't mean we all bring our sick children to playgroups just because it happens.

Also yes I'm aware of building immunity, doesn't mean our son and other children need to build sleepless nights because of someone's lack of judgement. Especially immune compromised children. NOTE I said ACTIVELY sick and specifically state playgroups that are NOT mandatory for parents. You can sit out for one week if your child is ACTIVELY sick. Just thought I would be specific in what I'm saying so no one goes off topic and says "well you can't keep them in for every sniffle" not what I'm talking about. To finish any comments saying "well don't go to playgroups then" will be blocked. Shouldn't have to avoid them because someone wants to bring a newly sick child in 🤷🏼‍♀️ I have avoided playgroups when my son was sick for 2 weeks to be sure, because I'm my area Mums bring their newborns...not that hard. For now we will be doing small nature walks 🌲
Sincerely,
Frustrated parent with a toddler waking up coughing all night 😮‍💨

Hate this man

I rlly hate tf out of my bd it keeps me awake at night sometimes how much I hate his ass. We r together but tbh im better off single n coparenting. He sees her weekends bc his dumbass decided to live alone n acts like he’s the greatest dad in the world. He spends about £300 on our daughter n apparently that’s more than enough. She’s 9 months old why r u putting a spend cap on ur own child. But will happily eat takeaway every night bc he’s too lazy to even cook. I get no time for myself n he thinks him working 9-4 mon-thurs n 9-12 Fridays is harder than looking after our child alone.. like ew r u actually dumb. Mind u I went out ONCE for 2 hours to grocery shop n he was calling me asking where I was…

Where are the ACTUAL men and good dads at?? I’m tired of him doing the bare minimum and hearing that he’s “doing his best”. If that’s his best I don’t wanna know what his worst is. Never having another baby w him again.

Co-parenting Issues

I have a son who’s under one. And me and his dad split before he was born. All we do is argue and it’s getting me so down I am getting to breaking point.

We live 30 minutes between each other and for logistic reasons I chose a nursery near me so I can still get to work on time and it’s easy to get to. He isn’t happy about this wanted me to have one nearer him or in his town. He doesn’t pay for any of the nursery fees due to funding not come yet im paying a full £1800 a month. Any milk nappies ect I have take to nursery. We try meet half way on swap overs or I drop him off at his house.

I work full time and because he complains about fuel and affording anything I suggest him have 3 nights a week including a weekend day so I also have a weekend day. Every week he has ago at me saying I’m taking his son away from family or has something on so I end up giving my weekend day up. I have lent him so much money he can’t afford fuel or much for our son so I’m basically providing for two households. He just wants more money and more weekend with our son so I just end up with a couple of hours on evening in the week day with him.

I don’t know what to do anymore he gets so nasty and I’m so scared of him. He flips out so quickly with me and all I’ve done is help where I can. I want my son to have his dad in his life but I a physically, financially and emotionally burnt out. What do I do?

Postpartum rage

1230am here- just had a meltdown and cried hysterically to my husband. My son who is now down to one feeding per night, woke up at 1120pm just as I was falling asleep. I tried my hardest to settle as I knew it wasn’t hunger. He got louder and I lost it. I came out storming to the kitchen to get a bottle (he only had .5 oz) and layed back down and just lost it. I’m exhausted, the balance of toddler and baby is insane, I haven’t had an hour to myself in months, I have no adult interaction all day, my husband works long hours, I have no one checking up on me. My rage is through the roof. The crying is getting to me this time around. It feels never ending and like the walls are closing in as the cries get louder. I need help. I need to escape and recharge. My husband no longer recognizes me, heck I don’t either. I keep it together in front of of the kids and let it out as soon as they’re backs are turned and then put a fake smile on. I love my children dearly but, I know I’m not ok. This is not joyful for me at this time. I need to know this will pass and I will be better for my children and my marriage.

Shaking

I've been struggling to get out with my boy who's now 12 weeks. I've just been going for walks etc where I don't have to interact with anyone 🙃
It's my friends birthday coming up so I went to the shops yesterday. Got to the till and I just couldn't stop shaking. And then I was stuttering and it was just a mess. Idk if its because there was a long queue behind me or if I was just nervous or something? Has anyone else had this. Do I just need to go out more?
Once I left the shop I felt fine I was relieved to get out of there.

I also feel weird walking round with the pram in public. Like I'm not really there? Dizzy feeling? Idk it's hard to explain.