Am bored

Who’s in for a chat,please if your too holy maybe you should pass

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Work from home?

Hey, is there any mums that have a good job that they can do from home and around their kids and daily life? I’ve got a toddler who’s autistic and I’m expecting baby number two, I need something I can do to earn some extra money to keep us afloat. Also I live in UK just incase some companies don’t hire globally ❤️

Bestie wanted!

Hey everyone!
I’ve been trying to find someone to connect with here. I’m looking for a bestie to chat about anything and everything! I’m in Oklahoma, but honestly, location doesn’t matter to me.
I’ve always thought it’d be cool to start a junk journal that we could send back and forth. If that sounds fun to you, shoot me a message! I’d love to hear from you! 💚

Sex question

I’m 36 weeks pregnant and whenever I orgasm my head severely hurts it just recently started I don’t know if that’s something normal I never used to experience it before is it something to be concerned about?

Is it normal? Nervous about sex

Is it normal to be extremely nervous about having sex again? I’m almost 1 month pp, had a second degree tear and still feel slightly sore down there; I’m nervous about how sex will feel since I’ve had my baby. This is my first child and i do feel a bit sore. My partner is very ready and the 6 weeks isn’t even up. It’s very nice to feel wanted and I’m also annoyed and feel pressured even though he said we can take our time but sex is all he keeps bringing up. Ugh i don’t know how to feel, this is scary. I love sex and my partner ugh why do i feel this way . I hate hormones , I’m annoyed ..

🤷‍♀️how to not care

Some might say I’m overthinking but idk. My coworker friends have all suddenly quit one by one within a few months from each other. I know the job was fine but the management sucked. And since I have been on maternity leave it seems that everyone has lost contact with me. Only me. How do I know this because they post get togethers on their stories and didn’t even asked me. Why do I care right? Because I thought we were more than coworkers, but friends. We would go to events all the time, dinners, outings but since I’m the only mom of the group I feel now forgotten. Is it selfish for me to feel this or should I try to just accept that I’m going to need to look for new friends and just move on.

Not getting a pay rise due to being on maternity

Hi everyone, I’m looking for some advice and wondering if anyone has been through something similar or works in HR/employment law.

I’ve had my return-to-work meeting ahead of coming back from maternity leave, and I’ve been told I won’t be getting this year’s pay rise. This is what my employer said:

“As you have been on maternity leave for a significant proportion of the current review period, it has not been possible to complete a full performance assessment against these criteria in line with the rest of the team. Accordingly, your salary will be considered as part of the next annual pay review in April 2027, when there will have been sufficient opportunity to assess your performance against the same criteria applied to all employees.”

The thing is, the company only changed to performance-based pay rises in December 2025, and I started my maternity leave on 15 January 2026. So I was only working under the new performance review process for a very short period before going on maternity leave.

I’m currently challenging the decision because I don’t think it’s fair to effectively miss out on a pay rise because I was on maternity leave. I’ve already spoken to ACAS, and they’ve advised me to send a further email explaining why I believe the decision is unfair before taking it any further.

Has anyone else had something similar happen? If so, what was the outcome? Or if anyone works in HR or employment law, I’d really appreciate your thoughts. I’m just trying to understand whether this is something employers can legally do or whether I have grounds to challenge it.

Thank you ❤️