11 year son saying is gay

My son has recently told me he’s gay and it’s knocked me for six has anyone ever been through this

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What aspect has knocked you for six?

If you'd like any advice on how to support him, here's some things:
* simply to tell him you love him exactly as he is
* listen to his feelings without judgement
* make home a safe space where he can be himself
* Watch for any behaviour changes that might suggest bullying at school and then speak to his teachers
* help him to connect with other LGBTQ+ youth groups, this will make a huge difference.

You've got this ❤️

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GAY AT 11???? Is he being groomed

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Does he understand what he means when he says he's gay?
Boys run around calling each other gay because they've brushed their hair, I'm not saying he isn't or there's anything wrong if that's his choice.

Thank him for telling you and trusting you and ask if there's anything he would like to know or discuss and you can make yourself available for conversations

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My son has recently told me he’s gay and it’s knocked me for six has anyone ever been through this

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