Episiotomy healing

I gave birth a week and 2 days ago and out of no where my episiotomy has got infected and I have a gaping hole where the stitches have failed and it’s oozing pus. Maternity triage said no fever so just take some antibiotics and pain killers which feels wild to just leave an open wound?!

Does anyone else have any at home healing tips?

I’m so upset as I feel so limited by my body to care for my newborn 😢

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I’m so sorry you’re going through this, wishing you a speedy recovery . Can you book an appointment with your GP and see if they can recommend anything?
Are you using spitz for bitz the witch hazel spray? I found that helped me a lot x

Hey, I am so sorry you’re going through this. It is completely valid that you’re feeling frustrated and upset about being limited right now, especially when you just want to focus on your newborn.

I know it sounds wild to leave it open but if they restitched, it would trap bacteria in and make things worse for you. It is odd but it has to heal from inside out!

Reach out to your GP, they may be able to advise on what more you could do.

It may also be useful to have check-in’s with your GP, midwife or Health Visitor so they’re able to reassure you it is getting better.

Be gentle with yourself - your body has been through a lot and you are doing amazing 💕

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