My husband changed his phone passcode

He changed his passcode in his old phone, which is very strange. Never once I have I ever changed my passcode. I tried to check his laptop history and it was all deleted.

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Is making your husband dinner part of being a stay at home Mum?

I’m a stay at home Mum, my partner works 06:00 - 18:00 most days. Whilst he is at work I’m trying to manage the house, look after my toddler the best I can, take her to groups etc. I feel like my responsibilities include house management and my toddler, and sometimes dinner does not fit into this due to time restraints and I will give my toddler a ‘snack plate’ type meal. He feels like dinner is an expectation and part of my ‘role’ as a stay at home parent.

He will typically cook on Saturday, but every other day it is deemed as my responsibility. Thoughts on this?

How do you deal with friends who spend money like there’s no tomorrow but complain daily that they can’t afford food?

Like seriously expensive days out regularly, including buying souvenirs, eating at the not-cheap restaurant there, paying for entry, parking, extras, then paying monthly instalments for holidays, on top of having countless unnecessary things on finance, buying everything tesco finest and m&s and looking down on shops like Aldi.
Then when I invite them to a free day day out at a community fete where it’s free entry free games free face painting etc they tell me they can’t afford to come and are worried about covering the next food shop. I know it’s not an excuse and they are genuinely struggling but also it’s pretty obvious why they’re struggling 🙃

It really sucks

I want so much for my boyfriend to find me sexy or even the slightest bit attractive but when I ask if he does he gives me the bs line about liking my personality, or he'll just ask what I think🙄. I mean yes I know he prefers bigger women which I am. But I know that has a limit and just cause he likes it in general doesn't mean he likes it on me. I don't have the slightest clue on how to make myself look attractive or sexy. Until him I never cared to do so. I'm 37 I've slept with probably close if not over 40 men and until him I never cared in the slightest if they liked how I look. Up until him I wore black all the time and dressed horribly in baggy clothes and dirty sneakers. With him it's so different and I want maybe even need him to find me attractive, sexy even, and I have no idea what to do.

Am I wrong to rely solely on my kids dad to watch them when In need?

A little background but my bd and I don’t have a set schedule whatsoever when it comes to visitation for our kids although I do have all 3 of them most of the time to myself. Now I don’t have much of a village to help me with my kids so I feel as though he should be the one to watch his kids for obvious reasons he’s the only other person that’s solely responsible for them. I rarely ever go out and have time for myself and usually when I ask him to watch them it’s bc I just need a breather where I’m not constantly needed by one of the kids or have to be somewhere like a doctor visit etc. Am I wrong for not finding someone to watch the kids that’s not him?

ARFID - worried and frustrated

What started off as picky eating turned into just a handful of safe foods, which has now turned into refusing food altogether even previously safe foods (toast, yoghurt, crackers). The only thing he will now eat is fruity bake bars, ice lollies and cake - essentially just straight sugar. And sometimes crackers with cheese (tiny amounts). So we are on the radar of the nhs and have been filling in a food diary this week. It’s just so depressing. I’m worried it’s affecting his health and development so we are taking supplements but some things are difficult to supplement for - fibre (we have a fibre syrup but he hates it) and protein. Anyone in the same boat?

Tui holiday village

I’m going away for the first time abroad to Tui holiday village with my 1.5year old and 5 year old. Still in nappies but doesn’t drink milk anymore. Still naps at lunch for 2 hours. Toddler will be on my lap- we have extra legroom seats and booked seats together. I’ve booked private transfers (not tui) with appropriate car seats. I have questions and worries!
Any tips for packing the nappies?
Should I trust we will get the travel cot we requested?
We will take our own pram (joolz aer)- will we be likely to take this on board or will we have to hand it over? If we do, will we get it back at the plane door or luggage carousel?
Should we take our video monitor? Any hacks instead? We have a roof terrace with a hot tub so was hoping to use that when the kids are in bed and toddler napping but concerned we won’t hear them.
The kids usually have blackout blinds. I’m guessing no use in bringing a travel blackout blinds as the windows will be large or patio doors on the bedrooms..?
Anything I’m not thinking of?