Fear of separation

I’m a first time mom and my LO is 8 month, am worried about going back to work after almost a year and how to adjust baby ... any experience?? Baby even gets separation anxiety if i leave room.
Please help with advice on how to managing this? Xx

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Im the same would be good to hear from others!

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Is your baby going to daycare? What’s your new setup?

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Hello Ruth!
I'm Nesta, a mom of 3 and a baby sleep coach. You can have a smoother transition going back to work. I did it three times. You have to do at least one "dry-run" practice to help you get ready. And, even with that it can be challenging with all the unexpected emotions and things that come with it. If you eant to chat some more message me.

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