Boyfriend broke up with me & left.. claiming he isn’t in love with me anymore but still loves me? I just gave birth two months ago. Idk how to navigate this and I’m so terrified of doing this alone and I obviously have no income.. he claims he’ll take care of us but that sounds too good to be true. Looking for advice and some positive affirmation here. Our relationship was so beautiful and then he completely flipped a switch & says he isn’t cheating. I’m so devastated
Read more on PeanutThe views expressed in community are solely the opinions of participants, and do not reflect those of Peanut.
Learn more about our guidelines.
I’m so sorry this is happening to you. I’m in the same boat except it’s my husband.

So sorry to hear that this is happening to you hun. I would reach out to close friends and family for support and also look for a therapist if you don’t already have one. Whether or not he decides to go through with this decision is on him but at least you know you aren’t alone 🫂
Hey y’all! 💕 I’m Caitlyn, 23 years old and I live with my husband and our 1 year old son named Avery.
I’m looking for genuine friendships and people I can really connect with. I love deep conversations, and I’m always down to FaceTime and yap for hours 😂🤍 I really enjoy wine, true crime, reading, and coloring. I’m definitely looking for friendships where we can laugh, vent and be there for each other 🫶🏽

6
10
I’m a stay at home mom to two girls. I love them very much but I can’t help but wonder what life would be like for me if I went off to college instead of being a mom. It might sound immature but I always wanted to be apart of a sorority or even just have an opportunity to actually meet people and build my village instead of being so alone and sad all the time on top of being a mom. That’s just a part of my life I’ll never get to experience and I always wanted to. I don’t know if anyone feels the same way
11
Please help! Can anyone suggest herbs or something low cost that will flush UTI bacteria naturally? My insurance ran out and I just paid for my annual ONGYN visit and a vet bill out of pocket. I cannot afford and trip to the dr for a UTI right now!!! And my dr won’t send me a prescription for antibiotics without coming in so it’ll be $250-300
16
I would switch places with him in a heartbeat. He gets to work from home and be with the baby, while I work full-time in the office. I only had one month of maternity leave and was able to work from home for an additional month, but by two months old, I had to return to the office and leave our daughter with her dad and in-laws.
Now she’s almost five months old, and he complains frequently about how difficult it is. His mom is often there to help, but she struggles with the baby too. He seems increasingly frustrated, and I’m worried it’s going to affect his mental health or our relationship.
Would it be better to just put her in daycare? I really don’t want to because I’m worried about her getting sick, and I have a hard time trusting other people with her because I love her so much. But am I being selfish by refusing daycare when it seems like he’s struggling to handle everything?
What would you do?
1
5
please comment to specify what birth control you use, form of sterilization, reasoning for not using, or anything else you think correlates to the prompt! :) Also share your experiences with what you’re using or anything you have used in the past. I think this would be such a beneficial conversation for a lot of women.
Personally I am currently pregnant but weighing my options for after birth as Im thinking I don’t want more children after this one but Im not 100% sure and Ive also always been hesitant on using anything because I am worried about the side effects or the horror stories i hear about certain things. I have taken pills back when i was a teenager but other than that I have no experience with it. I was thinking about copper Iud as it is non-hormonal and would have less side effects based on what i read but Iuds scare me in general also 😂
20
I feel so sad and lonely …

6