Feel like baby dad slowly giving up

What do I do? Me and my baby dad have been on and off since 2023 he cheated on me whilst pregnant and now I’m pregnant with his child again and has done it again the last time I saw him I cried infront of him he was just not bothered it’s like he doesn’t care about anyone and has no heart or soul I told him to leave my house and he did without hesitation we wasn’t necessarily together but he’d like to do me round and act like it I’d provide for him stupidly he has no job and I’d buy everything and make him food and we’d have sex etc then he openly told me he had sex with another girl when we was on a break for 2 days i blocked him when he left kept him unlocked on 2 platforms for 4 days he was blocked and didn’t try to message once that’s fine i don’t want to be with him but you’d think he’d message about his kids our daughter is nearly 2 I messaged him I’ll attach what I said but he ignored for 6 hours usually he is on his phone all the time so I messaged his brother then his brother got him to reply I’ll attach the messages but idk what to do me and him are clearly done I now see he used me but idk why I didn’t think he’d be like this with our daughter it’s like he doesn’t care anymore he doesn’t message first to ask when he can see her he always waits for me to message and ask him and then when he finally comes he just spends most his time on his phone as if he hadn’t had a break for days on his phone and with his friends i never go out at all I’ve been with my daughter everyday since she was born I just think it’s weird your opinions please?

He has just replied to the last message I sent saying “what” 🤦🏽‍♀️

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Go through court. Have minimal contact with him. Don't force him to be a Dad.

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That man hates you hun . Please leave him and put him on child support

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Sorry, I'm just being honest about what I got from your post.

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