Kensington Wing, Lindo Wing or Portlands?
Is it realistic to have a 3.5 hour drive home?
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I've had two at Lindo, couldn't fault it. I wanted to be near to a NHS NICU in case we needed it.

I had two at the Westminster Maternity Suite in St Thomas’. Evelina right downstairs, the view, amazing team. My obstetrician had the choice of the Portland for births too but her theatres are Thomas’. Incredible births and easy recoveries, genuinely gutted I can’t have my third with her due to moving.

One thing to consider would be having a newborn in a car seat for that long. Would you be ok to keep stopping to give the new baby bean a break and also feeding? I was absolutely wrecked on my way back and I only had a 45m journey and spent the whole time crying because of all the hormones and sleep deprivation.

I had a 40 minute drive home and that was long enough, it was not comfortable sitting in the car after a c-section, every bump in the road feels so painful and the seatbelt rubs on your incision. You also would have to stop for feeds and nappy changes too and give baby a break from being in the car seat when all you will want to do is get back home!

My hospital was 25/30 mins and that was hard enough. I could hardly walk to the car and me and baby both cried most of the way home. I was in pain, hormones were knocking me hard and I had no sleep. I really would advise against driving any further than absolutely necessary :( not saying this to scare you as it all gets easier after a few days and some sleep but nothing can prepare you for those hormones and the need to just get home x
I’m due December 11th but may possibly have to have baby November 20th now.
Is it too early to start buying for my hospital bag?!
It’s baby number 4, you’d think I’m an expert by now😂 any must haves for bags people can think of?! Attached my list so far!

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Hello all,
(12w1d here)
I recently downloaded the app because my parter said it will be better for my mood.
I’m felling quite stressed, no energy to talk a part from work. I’m not calling anymore to my friends or family, I do not even have patience or energy to reply their messages. It’s makes me feel bed about it, because I’m not like that.
Has anyone been through this?
❤️ thank you

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months of prepping for a water birth and i ended up having to be induced then an emergency c section since baby boy decided he didn't want to come anymore😂 im only 16 days pp but since coming home i've been constantly up and moving about. i don't think i've processed how traumatic the birth was yet since my family and partner haven't really sympathised with what i went through at all
any tips or advice for coping ? should i even bother with talking therapies?

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Hi, I am 8 weeks postpartum and I noticed one week ago a hole in scar after c section. I went to GP, they say nothing major. Has any experienced this before, any recommendations as it’s not getting any better.
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Unfortunately my care pathway has changed as my midwife is going to be on vacation for the rest of my pregnancy (to be clear this does NOT bother me, well deserved). And sadly there are no midwife appointments available at my GP, so I have to go to a children's center. The only thing I'm worried about is privacy, as I have attended baby massage classes there and it's just a big open room and I don't remember there being any other private rooms there. I'm worried about how they will do any checks, measurements or even sweeps (if offered). Wondering if any other UK Mums had this happen?

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Unsure what I should choose… I have weighed up all the pros and cons and still don’t know what is best for me. I’ve heard positive and negative birth stories for both but I’m so scared and not sure what I should choose.
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