Hi all, my 8 week old has never seemed to be able to latch on a bottle properly. She gulps, coughs, sputters and chokes a little during most feeds. We have noticed towards the end of the day the gas has been building and she then cries for 3+ hours until she falls asleep. She also squirms and cries a lot in her sleep. Has anyone had this experience? Perhaps seen a lactation specialist? We are pretty sure the gas build up is from the weak latch. Let me know please š
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We burp mid feed on bottle and breast and also pace feed on bottle to stop the gulping. We havenāt had an issue with latch - assume tongue tie has been checked? Hope things improve for you! 6-8 weeks is when they get peak fussy and colicy I think so Iām sure it will x

We had the exact same issue with our LO - she was born very small so could never reach around wide teats such as mam etc so she would just constantly gulp and click during feeds and start squirming after literally a few sucks. Then we would have the issue of gassy/windy baby screaming every night (this is almost common for a 6-8 week old anyway) but she was excessive! We have since switched to Dr Browns bottles - specifically the narrow neck bottles so that her whole mouth reaches around the teat at the base so she has flared lips and no longer clicked. They are slightly spenny but they have been worth every penny!! Also as above, pace feeding and holding upright during after every feed for at least 20 mins. āŗļø

Also worth mentioning all the symptoms youāre describing suggests the teat size is too big, because the milk theyāre receiving is overwhelming them so might be worth dropping a teat size if youāve not tried that āŗļø

My LO did this and we dropped the test size down. We were using MAM
size 0 which was too much got her and moved to Phillips Advents lowest size and has a big improvement. We slowly moved up the sizes of the Philips and at 13 weeks she is now on the MAM size 0.
Had my daughter 9 weeks ago and Iām not sure why i feel like my son who is 2 keeps on annoying me and i just want him out of the way and all i can think about is my life without him .. he has autism and makes everything so much harder and Iām 22 trying to juggle all of this i feel crazy i had such a strong bond with my son when i was pregnant but after i have started to feel like i kind of donāt like him and wish he just wasnāt around me has anyone experienced this problem please i feel crazy and horrible i love my son but i just donāt understand why i feel like this
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At what age do contact naps become less regular? Donāt get me wrong, I love how serene he looks and love that he feels safest with me and 75% of the time itās actually nice to just sit down with him and enjoy the moment. However, there are some days where I just feel a little drained from the constant-ness of it and I feel like Iām trying to get things done/look after my needs in his wake windows when heās happy to go in his chair and watch me but then feel terrible for the lack of interaction with him where heās my sole focus and tummy time, etc.

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Morning everyone! Just wondering what a typical day looks like for you? How often is your baby on a play mat or in a bouncer etc?
I'm not really sure what my wake windows should look like and how long she should spend in my arms or on her play mat etc Per wake window / day.

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Hey everyone! I wonder whether I can get some peopleās opinions on nursing chairs.. Are they worth it? Do you actually use them? āŗļø
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How are we doing naps? Wake windows? Sleepy cue? Rocking? Feeding? Dark room? Bright room?
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My 10 month old keeps waking up at 5am and we canāt figure out why. Heās usually asleep by 7.30pm and then seems to wake up at 5am. He will then fuss for an hour and eventually falls back asleep. I know itās not the fact he goes to sleep at 7.30am because weāve tried later times and itās not light in his room because we have blackout blinds. Canāt seem to figure out why itās 5am that he wakes up??
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