I’m due back in work at the end of October and my little girl is exclusively breastfed and attached at my hip since we’ve never been apart, only for a couple of hours a handful of times. I know I need to work on leaving her with my MIL who will be watching her a bit more but do I work on stopping feeding to sleep?
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Nope 😊
Babies sleep so differently for other people. They’re smart, they know when milk isn’t around and your MIL will find different ways to settle her to sleep x

do some trial runs

I wouldn’t worry. My daughter never just goes to sleep for me, but at nursery without milk she naps same time without milk every time.
Hi, last night me and my newborn (2 weeks today) fell asleep last night and I forgot to set my alarm for 3hrs and we both slept for about 6hrs without her waking up to feed, usually she’d start getting fussy and start crying so I’d wake up anyways but she didn’t last night only woke up and started being fussy 6hrs later
I fed her and changed her nappy immediately she drank about 3oz and I feel so bad and am so worried , she seems absolutely fine but went straight back to sleep after feeding
Is she going to be okay? I genuinely feel so so bad and don’t know what to do, she’s gained 6oz since birth (weighed 4 days ago) and never lost any of her weight shed gained an oz by day 5
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How much did your child start talking during this time?
Mine is 19 months and can say all the basics like mama, dada, dog, cat, hat, cow, car, banana etc but she has been saying these since 13 months. So I am waiting on this explosion i read about. And her to start putting 2 words together.
Can anyone advise if this truly happens?
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My hubby is 6’5, I’m only 5 ft. We have a him size baby girl. Looking at her you wouldn’t think she’s over weight, she looks healthy but she’s a little chonk. She’s 10 months this week but I’ve had to put her in size 7 nappies. What do I do after this? What size nappies is everyone using? She’s half the size of my 6 year old boy, although he is a little short.

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Men have woman on a pedestal. They look at us like princesses. You should never pass gas in front of your husband nor should he know when you go number two
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I have 3 children, my oldest 2 must have breezed through the 4 month sleep regression as I never had an issue! However my 4 month old is well and truly going through the four month regression! She was sleeping in her next to me crib would have a feed once a night and go straight back to sleep. Now she is only sleeping if she’s in my bed next to me and I just don’t want to get her in the habit of being in my bed all the time, but it’s the only way I’m able to sleep myself! Any tips? Shall I just go with it for now?

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I'm really struggling. Baby is 4 days old and She wont really settle after a bottle anymore. She gets hiccups and seems to have lots of gass, despite doing slow feeds with breaks for burping. She will settle if shes being held only but We are both exhausted with no sleep and im meant to be recovering and resting from csection. But dont understand how I can do that as my husband needs sleep too and I'mworried for him. Im worried we mightbe so tired that we make a mistake and harm her like falling asleep while holding. And you cant fall asleep holding her as its dangerous. Ive also had a bad intrusive thought and that's really scared me 😭

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