I feel bad
I’m not sure if I’m wrong for this or not.
My son’s dad constantly wants to have sec. Even when I don’t want to. It’s like some thing he expects of me. And to be honest we don’t really talk or hang out much. But like he’s always trying to have sec with me, sharking around me and all that. It makes me uncomfortable because I don’t have a high sex drive. And to be truthful I never get horny. I get turned on but I don’t have no desire to make out with him and be all sexual like people do.
I don’t really understand because I like sec but there’s no way to get horny. I’ve always felt like something has been wrong me with regarding sexual desires.
I do get off tho. It’s weird and once I got off 7 times 😮
Is there anyway to fix this?
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Women often need help getting into the mood... Affection, cuddling, talking. It sounds like he's not providing any of that. Do you think it would help if he did?
I also like listening to steamy audiobooks or reading erotica
It upsets me that you feel that you need fixing as the goal doesn't have to be raising your sex drive to his level. This could be lots of things. If you arent feeling emotionally fulfilled in the relationship why would you suddenly feel like you want to have sex with him. That isn't unusual.also if youre aware there's a pressure and youre wanting to avoid it then that's even more reason your body and mind might feel resistant. You dont owe anyone sex regardless of who it is. Ive known people feel this and turn out to be more on the asexual side but I've also know people feel this and have been in the wrong relationship and it took a long time to untangle their relationship with sex after as they had been doing it out of obligation and pressure for so long. Your needs matter and emotional needs can be a big part of that. Look after yourself and you arent always the problem even if youre made to feel that way xx
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I’m not sure if I’m wrong for this or not.
My son’s dad constantly wants to have sec. Even when I don’t want to. It’s like some thing he expects of me. And to be honest we don’t really talk or hang out much. But like he’s always trying to have sec with me, sharking around me and all that. It makes me uncomfortable because I don’t have a high sex drive. And to be truthful I never get horny. I get turned on but I don’t have no desire to make out with him and be all sexual like people do.
I don’t really understand because I like sec but there’s no way to get horny. I’ve always felt like something has been wrong me with regarding sexual desires.
I do get off tho. It’s weird and once I got off 7 times 😮
Is there anyway to fix this?
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