Flexi working request

When did you girls put in your request for work or start the discussion? I’m going back in May and to be honest I just want to know what I am going back too!

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Companies have legally two months to give you decision from the date on the request. I just returned but filled the request in mid July, and the HR was trying to cover themselves with the 2 month rule I wasn't aware of, while working in an office setting before the leave. You have plenty of time. Plus, there should be two meetings, one with discussion and second with the decision! Good luck!!

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I started back in the May last year. I met my boss in the December and we talked about what I wanted and agreed verbally. Then in the Jan I sorted the formal request through HR. Was all agreed and signed by end of Jan

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Sorry to jump on but I thought I had to go back full time before asking in case they asked for maternity pay back? Is that not a thing?

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I started the discussion as soon as my paid maternity leave ended at 9 months even though i had the year because if I couldnt go back part time I wouldn't be returning x

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When did you girls put in your request for work or start the discussion? I’m going back in May and to be honest I just want to know what I am going back too!

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