Looking for a lifelong person.
✨ Anonymous because making friends as an adult is terrifying ✨
I’m a military wife + mom of 3, and honestly… I really just want a bestie. Someone I can genuinely click with, have those “how has it been 5 hours?” conversations with, send random thoughts to throughout the day, and just be completely myself around.
I’m a HUGE reader, I love coffee, cozy days, and getting way too invested in random conversations. I also have a shit ton of anxiety, so if you’re the kind of person who overthinks a text for 45 minutes before sending it… we’ll probably get along just fine. 🫶🏻
I’m not looking for a huge friend group or surface-level friendships. I want that “you’re my person” kind of friendship. Someone who can come over in sweats, drink coffee, yap about literally everything, and eventually become family.
And I’m totally open to long-distance friendships, too! Distance doesn’t really matter to me if we genuinely connect. I’m happy to have someone to text all day, FaceTime, share our lives with, and eventually meet if we ever get the chance. 🥹
If you’re also looking for a genuine bestie and think we might vibe, comment!! 🥹
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Hii happen to open the app & this is the first thing I see, I agree ! Message me 💁♀️🫶
Yes I need more friend I can text you when I get a chance throughout day bc I work alot
I'm looking for that spark too! Hit me up, let's see if we have it 😆
Im also an army wife and mom of 3 I also love to read love coffee fall is my favorite season and I also have anxiety 🙃
Ahhh😭😭😭😭😭 this this is me just not military but so familiar with it so I can be understanding. Gaww you sound amazing!!
Hi 👋🏻 mom of 3 here who’s also looking for this genuine type of friendship
Hi im a FTM of a 4m boy but im also military family. Im a veteran while hubby is active duty. Im the same wave of anxiety but also never seem to know when to shut up once i get to know you. If youd like, you can shoot me a text and we can see if we click 🫶🏻
Hey! Message me !❤️
That’s the kind of friendship I’m looking for, although I’m probably one of those long distance friends as I’m in South Australia
Hey! 🫶 I’m not a military wife but I’d love to connect! You’re welcome to message me. I also have 3 kids
Hey girl! I’m also a military spouse, love books, coffee, and cozy days! Message me ☺️💕
We need a group chat, y’all. 🤍
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Hi Girls, it’s my birthday in literally 45 mins and im literally alone because my boyfriend thought carnival was more important than me…he went today instead of being with me he didn’t even tell me he was going, he purposely delayed telling me when he was there and I just feel like im done with him. I’ve already done most this pregnancy him barely scraping the bare minimum its actually hard to even fathom this is a boyfriend. I’m 35 weeks pregnant and this really hurt my feelings today. You’ve gone to carnival knowing you have a heavily pregnant girlfriend at home on the day BEFORE her birthday. Also I’m from the UK 🇬🇧 so if your unsure of what carnival is search Notting hill carnival x
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Pregnant afff & craving a girl bestie to have some fun with (secretly) like & I’ll message you. I’m located in northern central Florida. 🤞🏼❤️
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