Hows this app going for you?

Im struggling to make friends or even keep the conversations going on this app. Im very disappointed and even a little sad about it. Anyone going through this too? Am i the problem🄲😢

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Same. Not sure if it’s me šŸ˜”

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Yes, same. I will admit a couple times I just didn't notice messages. Other times I just felt overwhelmed that day and forgot to respond 😟. It's easier to forget to respond to someone you don't know, unfortunately

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I made one friend so far on this app. Other convos fizzle out pretty easily tho :/

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I’m having the same experience. Seems like people tend to chat for a day or two and then disappear. I’m not sure if it’s because they didn’t vibe with me or because they forgot. I have had a few conversations fizzle out for similar reasons—there just wasn’t much keeping the conversation going. But I’ve also had people where it seemed like we clicked and were open to making a plan to meet in person and then they stop responding out of nowhere.

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Yes! Same for me, too. I was recently diagnosed with PPD and I've some how convinced myself it's just me. Perhaps I'm just socially awkward? Why's it so hard to make friends?

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Hi I feel the same

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Yes the same. Get the formalities in and then they don't message back. I was thinking about deleting the app today. But I'll give it some more time first.

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Hows this app going for you?

Im struggling to make friends or even keep the conversations going on this app. Im very disappointed and even a little sad about it. Anyone going through this too? Am i the problem🄲😢

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