Im struggling to make friends or even keep the conversations going on this app. Im very disappointed and even a little sad about it. Anyone going through this too? Am i the problemš„²š¢
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Same. Not sure if itās me š

Yes, same. I will admit a couple times I just didn't notice messages. Other times I just felt overwhelmed that day and forgot to respond š. It's easier to forget to respond to someone you don't know, unfortunately

I made one friend so far on this app. Other convos fizzle out pretty easily tho :/

Iām having the same experience. Seems like people tend to chat for a day or two and then disappear. Iām not sure if itās because they didnāt vibe with me or because they forgot. I have had a few conversations fizzle out for similar reasonsāthere just wasnāt much keeping the conversation going. But Iāve also had people where it seemed like we clicked and were open to making a plan to meet in person and then they stop responding out of nowhere.

Yes! Same for me, too. I was recently diagnosed with PPD and I've some how convinced myself it's just me. Perhaps I'm just socially awkward? Why's it so hard to make friends?

Hi I feel the same

Yes the same. Get the formalities in and then they don't message back. I was thinking about deleting the app today. But I'll give it some more time first.
Hi Girls, itās my birthday in literally 45 mins and im literally alone because my boyfriend thought carnival was more important than meā¦he went today instead of being with me he didnāt even tell me he was going, he purposely delayed telling me when he was there and I just feel like im done with him. Iāve already done most this pregnancy him barely scraping the bare minimum its actually hard to even fathom this is a boyfriend. Iām 35 weeks pregnant and this really hurt my feelings today. Youāve gone to carnival knowing you have a heavily pregnant girlfriend at home on the day BEFORE her birthday. Also Iām from the UK š¬š§ so if your unsure of what carnival is search Notting hill carnival x
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Hi Girls, itās my birthday in literally 45 mins and im literally alone because my boyfriend thought carnival was more important than meā¦he went today instead of being with me he didnāt even tell me he was going, he purposely delayed telling me when he was there and I just feel like im done with him. Iāve already done most this pregnancy him barely scraping the bare minimum its actually hard to even fathom this is a boyfriend. Iām 35 weeks pregnant and this really hurt my feelings today. Youāve gone to carnival knowing you have a heavily pregnant girlfriend at home on the day BEFORE her birthday.
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At this point idc where you live! Iāve joined group chats that every time I reply with my own expression SILENCE Iām not the type to go into detail. I speak pretty boldly but Iām an introvert, homebody type of gal, a texter not caller. A chiller not letās hang outter. I love my home!!! This happens pretty frequently Iāll check on old friends but then no checking on meāāā. Like not everybody is for everybody. Putting yourself out there is going to include rejection. Ok but whereās my people.

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Pregnant afff & craving a girl bestie to have some fun with (secretly) like & Iāll message you. Iām located in northern central Florida. š¤š¼ā¤ļø
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24 weeks pregnant and Iām honestly starting to panic I havenāt bought much for the baby yet and Iām on a really tight budget (around Ā£1k a month).
Thereās SO much to buy and I have no idea whatās actually essential vs whatās just marketing š
If youāve had a baby recently, what would you say I actually need before baby arrives, and what can wait?
Also if you know any good cheap places, baby banks/charities or ways to get things for less, please tell me š„¹ā¤ļø I need all the help I can get.
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Im struggling to make friends or even keep the conversations going on this app. Im very disappointed and even a little sad about it. Anyone going through this too? Am i the problemš„²š¢
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