Baby can’t sleep
9 week old can’t sleep for more than maybes 3-4 minutes at a time I am going INSANE that’s including a contact nap I have a toddler and the guilt is killing me please someone advise me I’ve spent the entire day trying to get her to sleep I’ve tried the pram in the house the pram out the house the boob contact naps she is so overtired bcos she doesn’t sleep I thought I had until the four month regression before this shit started
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My 10 week old did this yesterday. She was struggling so much to sleep, once asleep only slept for a few minutes, it’s exhausting and like you said it takes time away from my toddler unfortunately. I thought that maybe it was something developmental as I think she’s trying to learn how to laugh. My little boy was like this, he always became very unsettled when learning something new, otherwise I’m not really sure. But don’t feel like your the only one going through it 🥰
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