I hate my husband!
I have nowhere to go I'm financially dependent on him. I moved from a different country and got married to this a*****. He is so effing lazy. Comes from work and goes to the bed straight for the nap. Wakes up makes me serve his dinner, won't even make his plate. Eats. Plays some game and then goes back to bed. Snores loudly the whole night waking up the baby since we only live in a one bedroom apartment. When I tell him he disturbs the baby, he says that he snores because he is tired and can't control it. On the weekends. He comes home between his break for lunch. On the weekends he only plays games since it's his rest day and I have to serve him fresh lunch and dinner. Now he is saying that we should plan the next baby. I so fucking tired. I can't even work because I have to take care of the baby.
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I would NOT have another baby. I’d plan my way out…
Do not let this man trap you with another baby. Stop serving him food. He's a grown man and you aren't his mom nor his maid. I'm sorry you have to deal with this.
Have you tried sitting down and talking to him and making it clear that you need boundaries and attention as well as HELP around the house and with everything else? Since he is asking for another baby I am getting the impression that he is interested in keeping you as a wife and not necessarily a sign that he doesn't care about you anymore, but more that he is still interested in his family. I am just trying to see it as optimistic as possible. My husband is also from another country and a lot of things he would do seemed liked he didn't care so I learned that I had to talk to him clear and directly with what he needed to change as I would just get mad and not talk to him at all.
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