Just told my family im pregnant with my 2nd baby my first one is 5 years old im 31 and my family are very upset they havent met him and i feel like a massive disappointment and iv let them down we went through hell with my daughter biological and i understand but I just cant help but to cry right now 💔
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Congratulations on your pregnancy, I wish you a healthy pregnancy and easy birth❤️ try not to upset yourself, it will affect the baby.
Does your family live in a different country?

Congrats with your 2nd pregnancy. Im a bit confused by your message tho.
You family have not yet met your 5yo? But they live close by?
Who have they not met? And what do you mean going through hell with your biological daughter? Sorry your post doenst quite make sense for someone to comment or give advice if you were after any?

Congratulations babe on your pregnancy, this is about you and your babies. Not them & their feelings, private life is a happy life honestly even when it comes to family x
Sorry for anyone that maybe confused I was crying at the time writing it 😅 I was giving a back story im 31 years and i already have a 5 year old but me and her biological dont co parent he opted out during my pregnancy I am now pregnant, 5 years later with someone I met a year ago I didnt meet him straight away iv been very private and secret in regards to my personal life and have always done I have never introduced my current partner to my family my family are very upset that im pregnant with someone they havent even met they know im in a relationship they know he seen my daughter and what he does for a living the simple stuff but not much else because it not really come into question my mum started really crying when she found out cos she doesnt want to see me hurt and doesnt think it right they havent met him
We dont live far away i have arranged for them to meet him when they wasnt aware i was pregnant and I didnt technically plan to tell them till I was 12 weeks but my mum picked up and figured it out herself they wasnt avaliable to meet him he works 6 days a week and they work full time and i also work in-between school runs it difficult to manage time
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Just told my family im pregnant with my 2nd baby my first one is 5 years old im 31 and my family are very upset they havent met him and i feel like a massive disappointment and iv let them down we went through hell with my daughter biological and i understand but I just cant help but to cry right now 💔
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