The end of our marriage?

Maybe he’s waiting for a face to face talk? Or maybe he’s took it as there’s nothing he can do as you’ve already gave him by putting the ‘no desire to be married to you’ part.
I’d say conversations like this need to be had in person, and if you love him I think it’s important you give him time to correct some of his wrongs/shortfalls. They won’t be done over night or even over a space of months but you should start to see improvements in places and it’s up to you wether your willing to allow him and yourself the space to be able to right your marriage x

I don’t know what advice to give in this moment, but you have done a lot and you laid it on the line for him. If that is his response, I would just simply sit with it for now. The land at this moment has to be hard. If you have a therapist or someone you can talk this through with, they may not be able to guide you per se, but they can give you some degree of support. If this is his position in a few days then check in with yourself see where you are and just start putting one foot in front of the other. You don’t need to make any big sweeping movements today. That text that you wrote him was big. And I understand about the use of texts. Believe me.

Well if he accepts his faults and has done nothing to change then even after therapy that tells you everything you need to know right there.

Also, has he ever been or done the things you say you need? If so, ask yourself what the relationship was like then/what’s changed and see if you can both somewhat make efforts to get back there x

I think if he doesn’t care and you told him you have no desire to be married to him, you should divorce. He’s made it clear he doesn’t want to change, and you don’t want to be with him if he doesn’t. Honestly, your options are to stay in the marriage and “hope” that something changes (it likely won’t) or split. You’ve already stated you’re done settling. I think you already know the answer to the question you asked.

Well depends you should have another conversation is he wanna work is this marriage or is he prefer finish because depending on his future actions Ist better sometimes Ist better escape them wait until somebody wanna finally change is a a time when he is trial period … don’t thanks the change just two weeks see his efforts and you need to be patient if you really wanna workout this too second if you tired of the situation and you deep down know he no Ist going to change don’t waste your time

Takes two to tango, he has to put in the work too. Does he still want the marriage. Some time people aren't initiaters and us women have to be the planner or the ones who say let's do an activitie, etc

Ask him does he want to work it out

I’m sorry 😞 this is a tough situation for sure, no advice but knowing you deserve more is step one❤️