Working mom

I'm right there with you! I got to stay home for the 15 weeks. I work from home most of the time and travel a day or two a month for work. I have a ton of flexibility, so I don't actually start working until 10am and get to spend the mornings with my babe. I stop at 4pm and then get back to work after she goes to bed at 8pm. We have a nanny from 10am to 4pm every day so I get to focus on work but see my babe all day. I interact with her throughout the day and still feel like I'm failing her because I'm not focused on her all day every day. You're not alone in your feelings.

Hey girlie! I felt like this too. Does your aunt take her to play with other babies like events at the library, rec etc? I found that when my baby is engaged and busy it helps

I also had 4 months and kept baby at home with family helping until 10 months. I loved he got 1:1 care but I felt guilty as well. Now that he’s 10 months he is so active and the guilt got worse because I felt like he was bored. we actually moved him into an in home daycare, it took a long time to find a fit for our family. He actually is thriving being around other babies it’s helping his development and that pretty much nixed my guilt. I’m not saying go to daycare but find something that works for your family. There’s the little gym memberships, swim, free story times and play times

It’s a lot of us trying to figure it out! I just saw this after replying to your post lol https://www.instagram.com/reel/DZn3NrtP2hw/?stkn=MWl4cW9heWF2cnQ1cg==