What’s the one thing you miss most before having a baby?

Definitely sleep, after having 2 non sleepers I want a lay in so badly 😆

Having a free and flexible schedule. Now I have to schedule my work shifts around my husband's work shifts because someone needs to be with the kids plus now they're in school so someone has to get them ready and to school 😵‍💫

Tbh, it’s mixture of things but yeah sleep is important

What if I tell you that it gets better. Just like they won’t stay younger for very long either. My daughter is 5 now and my son is 3 and a half. I don’t really miss anything before becoming a mother because I make time for myself. I can see why it can be a difficult thing to do if you don’t have any help, but even an hour to yourself after them having gone to bed, is going to make a huge difference. Sometimes you also need to make peace with yourself too as you get older that something will BE different, and one of that thing is yourself. You are not the same as you were before, so first thing first is to stop wishing for it.

I thought I have it good after them both able to sleep through the night, but then I started potty training ing my son 😂 the sleepless night came back of me worrying he’d piss himself. My daughter was easier to train, she didn’t have many accidents, so I never had to worry about it. Sleep is overrated lol

A mix of sleep and free time. I used to take naps daily since high school lol and now I can barely sleep but I also miss being able to get up and go when I want or just sit home and not have to do anything