Has anyone made a friend on here?

I would have loved to have made some mum friends but find that I either get no reply or the conversation fizzles out. Any advice from those who have made friends on here?

in our community

Sad being done.

I’m 38, have three beautiful kids, and my youngest is only 6 months old. I know I should feel happy to be finished and able to focus on my life and the kids I have, but instead I feel so sad.

I keep having this feeling that someone is missing. I’m going to miss the newborn stage so much, even though it nearly kills me every time. 😂 The exhaustion, the postpartum depression, lack of family support and having gestational diabetes with every pregnancy are all very real reasons why I know I probably shouldn’t have another.

But emotionally, I’m struggling with the thought that this is really the end.

Does anyone else feel sad about being done having babies? ❤️

Recipes?

Any good dinner recipes? I’m so sick of everything I make

Mum group

Anyone wanna be added to a mum group on what’s app

Amazon wish list

Has anybody managed to claim a free gift from the Amazon baby wish list? I have no idea how to do it but don’t wanna miss out on the free gift 😂 I’ve had the wish list for ages and spent way more than £20 on items

Would you do it?

This is a long one. As a parent/grandparent of older children would you cosign, be a guarantor, or get the apartment in your name and they move in?

My daughter is a 29 year old single mom and my grand baby is 3. Upon breaking up with her child’s father she moved out of the home they both lived in. Making her a single income home and in this economy we know how hard that is. She doesn’t get child support and they have joint custody. Before she moved she could afford all of her bills but had to move due to the toxic environment. She began falling behind on a loan that she had previously took out to consolidate all her debt including private student loans, credit card, & medical. She survived for about 6 months then began to drown because clearly rent, utilities, gas, groceries, & stuff for her son held precedent. When it became too much (she doesn’t like asking for help) she decided to file for bankruptcy. She could afford the regular stuff but the extra was draining her. The monthly expenses exceeded her monthly income by hundreds and with her coparenting schedule it made it complicated for her to get another job. I was unaware about all of this. The only time she asked me for help was when her rent was going to be a few days late. She would obtain late fees on the 3rd but didn’t get paid until the 6th. She asked to borrow $500 (rent was $1600) and would pay me back the day she got paid and she did. I didn’t have to ask I just woke up to the money back. She’s decided she wants to move out of the area she lives which is near her child’s father to be closer to our family. However does not want to live with anyone because she does value her privacy immensely and will feel like a burden but they will also have to fit into the spaces and it’s just not worth it. She knows she can come back home but I live in a different area and she doesn’t want to live here and doesn’t want to take her son that far away from his father so he can continue to have custody. Her lease ended at her current apartment and she planned to move but then began dealing with the ramifications of having a bankruptcy on her credit. This means most places won’t rent to you because of the negative history and you’re stuck finding private landlords or places that are sort of.. shitty. Not a lot of second chance places around her. She moved back in with her child’s father for the time being and things have since gotten incredibly toxic again. She found an apartment that she loved with all utilities included for less than $1800. She said it’s prefect for her especially because everything is included and it’s less than she was paying at her last place. But they denied her due to her credit only. She received a notice that the apartment was now around $1600. (Different unit just New availability) which promoted her to finally call me, tell me everything that was going on, & ask me for help. She said she’s struggled with it for months and didn’t want to involve me or anyone in her mess. Which I know is true because every time anyone asks when she is moving she says she’s still looking and it’s just complicated. But I don’t co-sign for anyone for anything.. I was a guarantor for her previously but she was in school. I don’t want my credit to take a hit if something potentially goes wrong and I don’t want to be liable for the payment either if she can’t. I know she’s my daughter but this would affect me as well. I’m retired and living on disability. She’s not asking me to pay for anything at all. Even said she would pay the application fees for me. Said the easiest one would be for me to apply for the apartment and they get added on as occupants but she would pay for everything. I truly want her and my grandson away from her child’s father because it’s not healthy. She doesn’t need to be under the same roof as him but I still have my feelings keeping me from doing it…the last time she asked me to co-sign for an apartment was when she was moving out on her own for the first time 4 years ago if needed and I told her no. But she ended up not needing me and had gotten everything on her own since then. Everything is in good standing besides her credit which sucks that’s why she is getting denied from places….. what would you do?

Hiiiiii

I’m new here! Would love to connect with other moms that share similarities! Feel free to message me from wherever you’re from!