Scenario: you coach at different schools and you have no say in which school you're assigned. You get assigned your stepdaughters school. You have to coach her whole school but there are rules. How are you going about it?
For example, you can't hug the children you coach. You have to try to remain a physical distance to cover yourself because things happen and he/she said won't cover your job. You're also not a teacher or school aid and don't want the kids looking at you as anything other than "coach." I imagine a 5 year old is more than excited to have an adult they're comfortable with as their school coach and will want everyone else to be jealous 😂 especially this 5 year old.
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Can the school make an exception for a parent that is a coach?
I’ve known teacher that had their kids in their class. The kid called them by their last name like everyone else. I think the SD will adapt and be fine with following the rules too
Explain rules to kiddo and maybe stick to have fives for all the kids
Im not sure how the kids will be with that specific rule, i get you gotta be professional but little kids love hugs and high fives, they thrive off of them. I worked as a sub and kids all the way up to 3rd grade wanted to stop and hug their favorite teacher/staff. I wish you the best of luck with that.
I would speak to the school(s) about getting reassigned.
Both my parents are teachers I had both of them for class - no choice as they were each the only option for their respective classes. My dad in elementary school and my mom in high-school. I would hug my dad and call him "Dad". No one else ever did. Go in the first day and name it. Then no one cares. "I'm so and so's step mom, but more importantly I am your coach. I am going to treat everyone the same during our time together." Then stick to that.
While class was in session I was a student like any other in his class. Explain to your step daughter and then hold the boundary.
Knowing me I’m mothering all the kids one kid gets a hug they all get a hug don’t matter to me if they in my care 😌
I know plenty of people who grew up with their parents as teachers, TA’s, dinner ladies, etc, and while they loved to brag about it to the other kids like ‘that’s my mam’, they understood that there was no favouritism and they’d be treated the same as the other kids.
I don’t see how that would be difficult to explain to a 5 year old that when you’re at school you’re working and they need to treat you the same as they’re treat any other coach ?
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Scenario: you coach at different schools and you have no say in which school you're assigned. You get assigned your stepdaughters school. You have to coach her whole school but there are rules. How are you going about it?
For example, you can't hug the children you coach. You have to try to remain a physical distance to cover yourself because things happen and he/she said won't cover your job. You're also not a teacher or school aid and don't want the kids looking at you as anything other than "coach." I imagine a 5 year old is more than excited to have an adult they're comfortable with as their school coach and will want everyone else to be jealous 😂 especially this 5 year old.
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