I am currently at 35+5 weeks. I have this week and next week left to work but honestly don’t know if I can last ! Finding it so much harder this time having a small child to care for at home as well. We don’t really have anyone who can care for my son either as it used to be my mum but she now has a terminal diagnosis to deal with and understandably isn’t her usual self… Tbh I had stopped trying when found this out so was a bit of surprise and not ideal… hubby is currently working 6/7 nights to save as well so he just as exhausted as I am… but god I just want a full day in bed so bad! 😭😂…
Is anyone else struggling?
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I’m struggling with considerably less to contend with as this is my first, so you managing all of this at once is incredible! You’re doing amazingly. Do you get to work from home? I’m working until my due date for financial reasons and I’m 35+1, all I want to do is relax a bit! Keep having to remind myself it’s the final few weeks now.

Ive got 3 days left and wish I had a just left earlier as I just want a day home away from my toddler 🤣 but cant complain with 3 days - I'll be 36+1 when finished. Call in sick in your last week/few days? Not great I know but needs must sometimes x

Yes! Very much so! I'm 35+2. I've got another 3 weeks but have got 4 days annual leave during that time. As tempting as it is to go on sick leave, be warned that if you take a sick day from 36 weeks, mat leave automatically starts. It will be worth it to for us have more time at the other side!

I worker until 36 weeks im a chef it was hard work! Xx

I'm 32+4 and working until 37 weeks. I did the same for my first baby and although it was really hard, it was worth having that time at the other end.
I worked in the NHS as a radiographer so I asked to be non clinical for the last couple of weeks, essentially moved to desk work. And that really helped.
Kamila Noelle 💖
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Love her BAD. Happy 2 weeks baby girl 🥰💕

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Can I ask the mums in England how much they are spending on birthday parties?
Thinking ahead to January as my daughter will be 6. She wants a class party (only 15 of them) and wants it at her gymnastics club.
They charge £250 for 25 children, 1 hour of gymnastics and then 1 hour in the party room.
No food or anything included.
Is this decent or really expensive?
Would hiring a hall end up being similar?
Only bonus is the gym I won’t be able to decorate much so maybe I’ll save some money on balloons etc but I’ll still need to provide food, party bags etc.
I’ve never done a huge class party before only
Small party’s at home!

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Half baked with our babygirl!♥️

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At what point can you actually tell the difference 🤣 i feel like i have no idea what cramps feel like anymore
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I am currently at 35+5 weeks. I have this week and next week left to work but honestly don’t know if I can last ! Finding it so much harder this time having a small child to care for at home as well. We don’t really have anyone who can care for my son either as it used to be my mum but she now has a terminal diagnosis to deal with and understandably isn’t her usual self… Tbh I had stopped trying when found this out so was a bit of surprise and not ideal… hubby is currently working 6/7 nights to save as well so he just as exhausted as I am… but god I just want a full day in bed so bad! 😭😂…
Is anyone else struggling?
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39 weeks- So this morning I woke up with wet underwear and a big wet patch on the bed with bad cramps!
went to hospital not my waters broken but very watery discharge 2cm dilated and a very thin cervix they said. Was sent home.
since then I’ve been in pain on and off all day I’m tracking contractions now they’re every 8 minutes lasting around a minute.
scared to just be sent home again if I call the hospital any advice ? anyone been in a similar situation?
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