How far is too far
If you’re married, with kids, but want to have a spicy friend on the side, that’s kept to you only, (a secret) how far is too far? Where is the line that makes it cheating?
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Having any kind of a spicy friend is too far. Is this question for real?? 🤣🤣
Surely this is a joke?
Any level of secrecy and hiding things from your partner is cheating.
If you think of them as a “spicy friend” that sounds like cheating already. You don’t have to cross physical boundaries to be unfaithful to your partner.
At what point would you class it as cheating if it was being hidden from you?
if you cant tell your partner about it or are deleting msgs etc, its too far. having something for yourself is different to having a secret.
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