Husband
My husband says I’m weak minded and he wants a divorce.
I’m pregnant and we have one child together.
I currently am a stay at home mum.
I told him I’m not weak minded or jealous.
All this coming out so harshly is pure evil.
I said divorce but let me find a job first.
He did say to abort the child too.
He is happier without me.
He says first pregnancy I shown no hormonal symptoms like I am now.
Also he says never seen someone argue with their parents like me. I said my dad is a wind up and mum is hot headed.
I still speak to them after we do argue.
I said give one good quality of me.
He says I’m good at cleaning.
I said what about intelligence?
He did not say anything.
He said I hope after abortion you are fine.
I’m like wtf is wrong with you?
I am a fucking strong woman, I’m not weak minded or jealous.
Because of me he don’t have to do drop off and pick ups from nursery.
I actually will probably do an abortion as don’t want to have it with this man.
I want to leave him asap and take my son with me.
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What the actual fuck, get rid of that guy after you find your job. No way he’s just treated a pregnant women like that, we are bringing life into the world and he should care for you way more now that you’re carrying his child. If he can’t understand now that you will be emotional during pregnancy I don’t know if he did before. Ontop of that, let’s go back to biology. Women have cycles of hormones etc. for the rest of our lives, men do have cycles that aren’t based off hormones in that way. Men are supposed to represent, biologically’ stability for a women, emotional stability and women provide literally everything else 😂 so that man there, is a weak minded man if he doesn’t know how to do his job. Plus, if you do come across jealous, 9 times out of 10, it’s because he’s doing something (even if it’s not obvious) to make you feel that way, and that my girly, is the start of emotional abuse
What does he mean by weak minded? By staying married to him when he's obviously an unsupportive arsehole?
arww bless X I am so sorry hun X ur better without him. go ahed and please have your next one X as ur already have your son X
dosnt change from one kid to 2, Go far where he doesn't find u X
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My husband says I’m weak minded and he wants a divorce.
I’m pregnant and we have one child together.
I currently am a stay at home mum.
I told him I’m not weak minded or jealous.
All this coming out so harshly is pure evil.
I said divorce but let me find a job first.
He did say to abort the child too.
He is happier without me.
He says first pregnancy I shown no hormonal symptoms like I am now.
Also he says never seen someone argue with their parents like me. I said my dad is a wind up and mum is hot headed.
I still speak to them after we do argue.
I said give one good quality of me.
He says I’m good at cleaning.
I said what about intelligence?
He did not say anything.
He said I hope after abortion you are fine.
I’m like wtf is wrong with you?
I am a fucking strong woman, I’m not weak minded or jealous.
Because of me he don’t have to do drop off and pick ups from nursery.
I actually will probably do an abortion as don’t want to have it with this man.
I want to leave him asap and take my son with me.
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