Single mother, im sick of my 2 year old destroying the house. He has practically left me with no tv, no dining table, no coffee table, no tv stand, the blinds he has ripped off, I have no curtains for the house anymore,
No matter what I do or distract him or give him toys, he has broken everything in the house and I just feel so depressed that I’m living in a house with nothing because I feel like I don’t know how to control my child anymore .
I need advice. Please. What did any of you do to stop this and have you experienced this? When will it stop 😔
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This is why I go outside. I cannot bear sitting in watching him trash the place. 😂 Soft play/playground/library/football/swimming/gymnastics/farm - whatever lets him get all that energy out so he’s nice and knackered for his nap!

I'm with Sharon. We are outside almost all the time. Even if we are just aimless strolling up and down the streets 😁
We have being to every play area around. Any restaurant, gym, centre, anything with child area, we are there even if we aren't buying anything. Just keep switching up activities. That would tire them out.

I got my son a water tray that I can set up outside or inside. But most of the time he chooses to be outside no matter the weather. Trying to get him inside I feels like a full on negotiation I rarely win. But I did notice that the more water play he did, the less frantic his behaviour was.
I have also swallowed my pride and stopped telling myself that I have to do everything alone. So I’m looking into a nursery placement for 2 afternoons a week so my son can play with children his own age.
I am here for you if you wanted to message me. One single mum supporting another x
My daughter started preschool 2 weeks ago. When I picked her up one day last week her key worker said she hadn’t ate her lunch and asked how her eating was at home. Today when I picked her up she said she hadn’t ate her lunch again and said if she continues to not eat she’ll have to just do mornings. My issue is she went on to say she’s SO small so she can’t go without eating (with such an attitude) and just basically started making digs about her. I looked in her lunch box once we’d left and she’d eaten a cheese sandwich, sausage roll, babybel, yoghurt, strawberries and blueberries. All she had left was crisps and a belvita bar. They also get 2 snacks from preschool so I feel like that’s more than enough for a 2 year old. I don’t understand why she would say she’d eaten nothing and make such a big deal when she ate majority of it. She then carried on making digs about her saying she’s stubborn (what 2 year old isn’t) and they have to tell her no a lot. I say making digs again because she wasn’t just telling me she had an attitude and was basically just complaining about her. It’s left a really bad taste in my mouth and when I asked my toddler if she had a good day she said no (she always comes out happy saying she’s had a good day) and when I asked her why she said my teacher
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My baby is going to be 9 months at Christmas can he have a Christmas dinner like we do or does it have to be blended
What do u give them for a Christmas dinner

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I'll try to make it all simple.
I have 3 (adult) brothers who have learning difficulties. Limited friends, live alone.
My dad recently got remarried.
1 of my brothers really dislikes my dad's partner - too much has happened to write here, but basically he sees her as controlling and a bully.
Organising Christmas last year was a nightmare as my dad's partner refused to be in the same room as my brother. Said she never wanted to see him again.
The rest of the family thought this was a complete overreaction (given my brother has never said/done anything nasty/malicious.) They were talking about a Christmas meal, but excluding my brother. So we said NO, we are not leaving him alone on christmas day and the rest of the family wanted him there. We basically said; Christmas is at ours, but we are not having anyone excluded, so you either come together or not at all.
Probably not the best way to handle it but I was so pissed off.
My dad and his partner booked a cottage away for 2 weeks, to see her daughter who lives 3 hrs away by car. So choosing not to spend any of Christmas with us at all.
So my brothers came down to ours for Christmas (because my daf and his partner weren't even trying to resolve the issue)- it was lovely.
I alternate Christmas day with my partner- one year with my family, the next with his etc. So this year it's his turn.
Usually my dad would spend Christmas day with my brothers. But he has told me they have booked the cottage again and seeing her daughter again.
This means my brothers will be alone on Christmas day.
They don't drive and they don't live very near each other. They don't have jobs and are some of the kindest people I've ever met.
They don't deserve to be excluded. They don't cook either.
Do you think what my dad and his partner have done sounds fair?
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Moms!!! How did yall prevent yalls kids from putting their hands in their mouth? My 5 month old son has a bad habit of shoving his hands down his throat every chance he gets and he’s getting sick off of it. We’ve tried gloves but he puts those in his mouth too

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Which one from Tesco is good? Is this ok? But it says no fat and I thought we have to give full fat one for baby? I want one with no added sugar too.
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Hi! I've never posted here... I hope this is how it goes 🤣 I have 9 month old twin boys who love to eat. They eat table food, but have NO INTEREST in feeding themselves, unless it's like a big wafer. SOMETIMES they'll manage a few puffs. Otherwise they want to be spoon fed and/or pull my hand to their face with finger foods. When did your little one want to bring food to their mouth?

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